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Why are boys so confusing?

September 2, 2009
By VirginiaHeart BRONZE, Torrance, California
VirginiaHeart BRONZE, Torrance, California
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Favorite Quote:
Good Girls are just Bad Girls who DON'T get Caught! <3


Why do boys always go for the pretty girls? They have to have the blonde hair and blue eyes! But what about the girls with dark hair and green eyes? Aren't they pretty too? Boys always go for the pretty girls, they want to look popular with those girls and be considered cool cause they go out with the "cute" girls! What's so cute about a ton of blonde cheerleaders thinking they're better then everyone else? In all the movies the blonde cheerleader has the guy at the beginning but then, in the end, the brunette get's him. Why can't it be like that in reality? Boys are so confusing. One moment they are together with the geeky girl, the next moment they are dancing at prom with a cheerleader. Why can't the girls that make sense and are beautiful in there own way be loved. Why are boys so cute, yet so hard.


The author's comments:
This was dedicated to a close friend of mine who feels this way.

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on Sep. 30 2016 at 12:44 pm
lilyanna1994 BRONZE, Wilmington, California
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I love your story!

on Jun. 28 2016 at 3:16 am
So you can never really understand why boys do what they do why they're so weird why they're so good at math and reading you'll just never understand

on Jun. 28 2016 at 3:10 am
Some boys are weird and some are smart and some are dumb and some are cute and some are ugly some like the pretty girls that are cheerleaders

on Jun. 2 2016 at 1:55 pm
shushu_a7 BRONZE, Sandbach, Other
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Bravery is not the absence of fear but rather the knowledge that something else is more important

I think teenagers in general are confusing. We just can't seem to make our minds up what we want! Do we want true love, or popularity? Do we want someone who can make us laugh, or someone who can fufill our physical needs?

on May. 16 2016 at 2:24 pm
666goldchains666, Crystal City, Texas
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emotionally dead but still giving good head.

Not all boys are like that , plenty of boys in my school love girls for there personality & there loyalty.Trust me you'll find someone

on Apr. 19 2016 at 11:04 am
i have blonde hair and blue eyes and no boys wanna go out with me they are so confusing

.map. said...
on Apr. 15 2016 at 9:20 am
.map., San Antonio, Texas
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Favorite Quote:
"life is to short to be normal"- Marco Perez

you are so wrong

on Apr. 8 2016 at 7:21 pm
Goodness. Everyone's confusing, especially in adolescent and young adult years...all those hormones. But trust me, the guy you want isn't going to be all over the place or ignoring you. The guy you want is the one who is always there no matter what. Trust me. In high school, I foolishly stuck with someone I didn't really have feelings for and I'm pretty sure we were both miserable. Meanwhile, one of my best friends (he was always around, always ready with a smile and a compliment) waited patiently until I split it off, then admitted he had feelings for me. We both moved, so we're not together yet, but we're figuring things out and I'm optimistic about "us". Even if we don't end up together, I know that he's going to be a lifelong friend. Hang in there, girls! If you ignore the jerks and have a little patience, you'll find your man. Or he'll find you. Please don't saddle yourself with the wrong guy in high school. Whether it lasts or not, it /will/ break your heart. Trust me, having no boyfriend in high school doesn't hurt nearly as much as having the wrong one- the pain of being "alone" will fade, because you are never really alone. Even though it hasn't gotten less confusing yet, I do know one thing: not to waste your time on guys who don't think you're worth theirs. If he's always there, has a sincere compliment for every occasion, and makes you happy, take his hand and never let go.

Kylie Zhang said...
on Apr. 3 2016 at 6:57 pm
I agree with you, boys are honestly so confusing. They have practically no space for Asian girls, they don't even bat an eye on us. They always focus on the classic blonde girl and have interests in only them. Boys are so cute, yet they are so hard.

Jack said...
on Apr. 1 2016 at 9:45 am
This article express me. Boys love blonde girls because they are more attractive then girls with black hair

PatyDiaz said...
on Apr. 1 2016 at 9:32 am
I really agree with this article because not all the girls that look good outside have good personality someone are very ugly and only play with the boys!!!

Edubs SILVER said...
on Mar. 29 2016 at 11:06 pm
Edubs SILVER, West Jordan, Utah
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"But there's a hope waiting for you in the dark, you should know you're beautiful just the way you are. And you don't have to change a thing the world could change its heart. No scars to your beautiful, we're stars and we're beautiful." - Alessia

saying that boys only fall inlove with blonde hair, blue eyes is very stereo typical. I have blonde hair and blue eyes and no boys go for me. But I agree that boys are confusing but for other reasons

Edubs SILVER said...
on Mar. 6 2016 at 5:40 pm
Edubs SILVER, West Jordan, Utah
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Favorite Quote:
"But there's a hope waiting for you in the dark, you should know you're beautiful just the way you are. And you don't have to change a thing the world could change its heart. No scars to your beautiful, we're stars and we're beautiful." - Alessia

that's true. Although the statement that it's too opinionated.. it's in the opinion section for a reason

on Mar. 4 2016 at 3:20 am
Aspire_2.0 SILVER, Tirana, Other
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Opinions everywhere, you can not judge a boy's taste in girls. Do not use your bad experience against boys. This is way too opinionated and is plain bad.

on Mar. 3 2016 at 7:14 am
QueenIsland123 BRONZE, Dubai, Other
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It always seem impossible until it is done -Nelson Mandela

I completely agree with u!! Why cant boys just love a girl for who they are and not because of what they look like or if they are popular. All girls, no matter what colour or religion, are beautiful in their own way. Just a quick tip: Don't change urself for a guy. You are beautiful in ur own way and there is a boy out there who will see that and love u for who u r :)

on Feb. 17 2016 at 9:12 am
ScarletCity PLATINUM, High Ridge, Missouri
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Seriously, though, Guys and girls brains are made up differently. Us girls think differently than guys. What we think is not, necessarily, what they think. But, I agree with you wholeheartedly.

YoungThug said...
on Feb. 1 2016 at 8:11 pm
YoungThug,
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Boys aren't confusing neither are girls we just have a different view of things in the world.

Yeabsera said...
on Dec. 23 2015 at 6:27 pm
Yeabsera, Nashville, Tennessee
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To all the girls out there, You are more beautiful and precious than you know.The most beautiful person you can be is you. (Not the cheerleaders,thought this is for you too.) Don't let a guys decision change YOU. I'm sure the guy himself doesn't have it all together either. If he doesn't see the rare beauty that is held inside of you, then honestly he doesn't deserve you. I'm not saying don't give him a chance, he might end up being the guy for you. And if he's not , just know that it's not over and learn from your mistakes. Have courage and know there is a greater force than humanity can imagine, that loves you with all his heart NO MATTER WHAT. Good luck!

on Dec. 18 2015 at 12:52 pm
Onediectionforever, Holland, Ohio
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Love yourself and be happy and enjoy your teen life while you still are a teen:)

Shut up mark fat girls are betufiul and smart too to date boys are stupid ha ha take that

on Dec. 5 2015 at 8:36 am
Mark_____t BRONZE, Carrollton, Texas
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Favorite Quote:
"Failing to prepare is preparing to fail." ~Benjamin Franklin~

From a guys perspective, if a guy is dating an attractive girl purely because she is attractive then he's probably got other things on his mind then having a legit, healthy, relationship.


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