I don't like Lady Gaga.

April 2, 2010
Blasphemy alert. I’m a sixteen year old American girl and I don’t like Lady Gaga. And no, it’s not because I don’t like her music, her costumes, or her performances. I just don’t like being manipulated.

Actually, I lied. It’s partly her music, costumes, and performances. But not so much because they’re hideous or outrageous or tiresome. But looking back at those pictures of her as a “normal” girl and seeing what and who she is now, it’s almost insulting. The fact that this girl had to change into something almost non-human to finally get noticed is unsettling, at best. She’s instead this cold, faceless force. No one noticed her when she was trying to “make it”. But then the fame machine (monster, she calls it?) seemed to eat her up and spit out an entirely new person, repackaged and revamped to “shock” us all.

And in the end, it really isn’t even that shocking. It’s almost a little pathetic (and you’ll see what I mean by insulting) when it seems that the state of the nation’s youth has degenerated so much that we need a woman in a mask and sparkling breasts to tell us that we’re all okay. Okay to be different, okay to be loved, the whole package. Because then we really aren’t, are we?

She's been quoted as saying, “I would rather die than have my fans not see me in a pair of high heels. I'd never give up my wigs and hats for anything.” I'm afraid that this mentality about possessions and image, to her millions of female fans, is dangerous. She speaks almost as if these material things are as vital to life as water is. This is the same woman who says that “I'm always saying something about art and music and fame. That's why you don't ever catch me in sweatpants.” She claims that her style and her persona is for art, and yet, it begs the question if she ever does anything for herself. She makes herself a martyr for the love of her fans. And if she is as passionate as she says she is about new frontiers in art, why are the vast majority of her lyrics about sex and money?

I'm not asking her to be anything different, not exactly. Give me a David Bowie reincarnate, an rebel in the music industry. But give me a little more complexity, a little more beauty, a little more thought than just what's on the outside. Give me another facet than just the freaky hair and makeup and clothing, because if that’s all there is, her opinion about simply being yourself is lost somewhere in the jumble of cosmetics and oversized sunglasses. But most of all, give me a break.

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alipattz said...
Jun. 16, 2016 at 10:42 am
I respect your view, but I am a Little Monster. I believe that Lady Gaga uses the costumes etc not to grab attention but to show people what she is into. Shes thoroughly passionate about art ans this is how she shows it. She hasn't just became successful due to this, she has an amazing voice but the music industry also wants someone who is unique. If she were just to use her voice, then she wouldn't have been chosen as there's so many trying to do the same. Its not easy to get signed up to a mus... (more »)
itsrainingcats This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Jun. 8, 2016 at 9:27 pm
Very well written, you prove your point very well, give examples, quotes, lots of stuff. I can really tell you're passionate about this. Good job, and I agree with what you're saying.
ScarletCity This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Dec. 25, 2015 at 9:16 pm
The way I see, Lady Gaga and Johnny Cash are not that different. 1) they are well known by their looks. 2) They don't really sing. 3) Most people can sing at least one lyric of their songs. The difference? Cash's songs had meaning, had weight, where as Gaga's is all music and fluff words. Well written article though, I completely agree with you.
fabulouslydying replied...
Aug. 20 at 9:25 pm
Actually, Lady Gaga is really good at singing. If you listen to her cover of songs from The Sound of Music at the 87th Oscars, you can hear that her natural voice is amazing, it's just that her songs don't really capture her talent.
Ray--yoThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Feb. 18, 2015 at 11:03 am
I don't really care much about the singer, just liked the way you put your view forward. Good writing!
xonikkitayor said...
Mar. 14, 2014 at 1:53 pm
i think this artcle was well written, but your basiclly just judging her by her apperence on the outside. If you really take the time to actually listen to some of the things she has to say and listen to her songs closely, she actually is a very genuine person; but everyone is intitled to their own opinion.
AshleySD replied...
Jun. 4, 2015 at 5:57 pm
Did you not see the quotes?
alipattz replied...
Jun. 16, 2016 at 10:43 am
how are we to know the quotes aren't just made up? you made no references or links, and a lot of false publications go around nowadays.
Hamza97 said...
Mar. 1, 2014 at 2:09 pm
I like gaga. She creates these costumes to create a space for her fans to be themselves. She's a great singer and writes her music. You can tell in her work and interviews that her music is coming from the heart and is only meant for good. I respect And listen to Gaga even though Im more in to rock. Once you know all this and still are not interested in her, its okay! We are all different and like different things! Well written blog btw :)
Marie Esquillo said...
Feb. 23, 2014 at 10:59 pm
This article was well written, but the way I look at it, if it really irritates you this much, don't listen to her music or watch interviews. It's really that simple.
Becky97 said...
Feb. 22, 2014 at 5:20 pm
You hit the issue right on the head! I totally agree with everything said in this article and it's plain that Lady Gaga has given up what she once was in the name of gaining recognition. She's a sell out. Also, the article was extremely well written. It's professional and smooth, an instant favourite for me.
KatieWorthington said...
Jul. 19, 2013 at 8:46 pm
I totally agree with you. While I do like some of Gaga's music, I think she's lost sight of herself amidst the costumes, the make up, and above all, the FAME. If you take all that away from her, what do you have left? Sadly, at this point, her image is basically what defines her in the industry, not her talent.  
AWinterTypeOfGuy said...
Jun. 20, 2013 at 2:12 am
Although I agree with your idea that she had to change and glamorize herself to be noticed, I disagree with the rest. No one, aside from Lady Gaga, can exactly say whether her costumes and accessories are an extension of herself or simply a means of attracting attention. It's true that she wasn't always this "out there", but it doesn't mean that she isn't instigating the change herself. Also, isn't it better that someone this colorful is preaching acceptance and d... (more »)
TimeTraveller said...
Jun. 5, 2013 at 9:15 am
I disagree. :) And yes you may call me crazy and probably a freak for this, but I love Lady Gaga, or I say, mother monster. To begin with, many people don't see the true person in her behind the fame and the "hideous" fashion, every bit of her is devoted to art and music and by wearing "outrageous" outfits, she is expressing herself as an artist who isn't bounded by the norms of the society, this has no negative influence in her fans. I am from the same community and ... (more »)
nikiiiZ This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. replied...
Nov. 6, 2013 at 9:37 pm
Agree with this %100000!
WriterHead This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
May 1, 2013 at 12:43 pm
i agree with you. i think lady gaga is very entertaining, however, what you said really opened my eyes about artists pretty much selling their souls just so people can listen to their music or even get attention. i always said that if i ever became famous, i would never not be myself. i would always remain humble. thank you. :)
Serenity said...
Feb. 28, 2013 at 9:34 am
Absolutely, 100%. I finally got around to watching one of her videos (I thought her music was mediocre so I never bothered) and was disgusted that this stuff is popular. Her image is lame and more superficial than most, her shock value is tiresome and transparent. But when I decide to watch a video and find it to be loaded with straight-up soft porn and Satanic symbolism, and realize that THIS is the person people freakin' idolize, I pretty much lost hope for Western society. Thanks for givi... (more »)
Fangirl4 replied...
Jun. 2, 2015 at 1:04 am
Is Satanic symbolism a bad thing?
mollybug13 said...
Feb. 20, 2013 at 5:46 pm
Im not really a big fan of Lady Gaga either not just because im not allowed to listen to her music. She just seems so fake. I want to be a singer too but I dont wanna do it if I have to dress up like a self glorified barbie doll and only sing about inappropriate things.  Really thought provoking piece. 5 stars
Hey.. said...
Jan. 8, 2013 at 8:58 pm
I am a 13 year old kid from San Ysidro, CA and I do like Lady Gaga I don´t care how she looks or because of her performances I like her because she taught me a lot of being brave and also because she has talent..
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