Sometimes you have to prethink a situation.Study it. Observe it. Analyze all its features, that way you know its every move.Sometimes it's hard to face the reality of things when you already know what the outcome will be.So you've went through life, wasting your time on something that set you backward.But you have no one to blame but yourself.Everybody is in control of themselves. But just because you are in control of yourself doesn't mean that you always know what you are doing, saying, or how you are acting.Never let something that meets the eye stop you from seeing yourself.Stop staring into a big black glass because when it becomes clear, you'll see what the person has made you to be, not you yourself.