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Why are boys so confusing?

Why do boys always go for the pretty girls? They have to have the blonde hair and blue eyes! But what about the girls with dark hair and green eyes? Aren't they pretty too? Boys always go for the pretty girls, they want to look popular with those girls and be considered cool cause they go out with the "cute" girls! What's so cute about a ton of blonde cheerleaders thinking they're better then everyone else? In all the movies the blonde cheerleader has the guy at the beginning but then, in the end, the brunette get's him. Why can't it be like that in reality? Boys are so confusing. One moment they are together with the geeky girl, the next moment they are dancing at prom with a cheerleader. Why can't the girls that make sense and are beautiful in there own way be loved. Why are boys so cute, yet so hard.

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yuvalkgn said...
Dec. 19, 2011 at 11:59 pm
True; girls believe we only look at their breats, body, and face. -_-'
kk-gothgirl12-kk replied...
Jan. 17, 2012 at 12:08 pm
okay, the other one i posted got took down, but still there are girls that look at that stuff on guys,some do some don't...... same with guys.......example this boy stares at my b.oobs ALL the time. whenever we take tests and al he looks there.... he even admitted it, then he asked if i could give him a bj.
INHAILED replied...
Jan. 18, 2012 at 7:56 pm
Yeah I agree but that guy has problems. I feel a little bad saying that but he has problems
DavidBliss replied...
Jan. 23, 2012 at 7:43 pm
you have to understand that guys are a lot more visual than girls ( its been proven.) In general, guys look at appearances , then when they get to know that girl, that's when they decide if they like them or not. But for girls, guys don't display as much as girls, ( body parts) so girls tend to mature faster and have to rely on other things to find that they like in a guy rather than physical features.
INHAILED replied...
Jan. 23, 2012 at 10:26 pm
I understand that but its just the fact that he stares at her and asked for a bj. I understand that guys are its just... guys like him. I was a little harsh saying that and i shouldn't have been, and I apologize.
kk-gothgirl12-kk replied...
Jan. 24, 2012 at 10:10 am
you were a lot nicer than I was...... sorry but i look at the gu inside...yeah it'd be nice if they dont have a huge mole on their nose. but for me its th guys personality... my bf right niw is nice, and yes he is hot but what made me like him was what he was like :)
StarryRoss said...
Dec. 8, 2011 at 11:39 pm
Yeah, i dunno, at our school, the cheerleaders are kind of a joke actually. So blonde cheerleader doesn't apply to me; yeah we kind of have a cool crowd, but nobody really cares much about them anyway. I have to say, i have brown hair and hazel eyes (which nobody believes) and i'm very smart, not a nerd, have lots of friends, and yet i NEVER EVER EVVVERRR got the guy. Ever. Not that they never liked me, i just never got it in the end. Well, jokes on all the cool girls, because i've got the best ... (more »)
edthezy54 said...
Dec. 5, 2011 at 11:50 am

i dont like blond girls but i do like spanish girls


ed thezy54 said...
Dec. 5, 2011 at 11:33 am
i like girls for their personality
JoslynneMarieS replied...
Jan. 17, 2012 at 10:00 am
Why are there not more of you out in the world?
TinyTiglet96 replied...
Aug. 12, 2012 at 8:22 pm
I know Right!! lol
chuntiBaee said...
Dec. 2, 2011 at 10:23 am
i Think Itt Iss Soo Weird Thtt Guyss Say They Knoe What They Wnt But Really They Dont.
DizneysWorld said...
Nov. 30, 2011 at 9:57 pm
I love this article, but i am blonde and blue eyes, and not a cheerleader. Hair color has nothing to do with weather or not you get guys because if this was true, i could get any guy i want, and i cant.
kksexi12 said...
Nov. 24, 2011 at 3:54 pm

 hey....... luve this one so much i read it evry time i get on......... happy thaksgiving to the world and thos of u in it with me...... be thankful b-cuz there will always be 1 person out there for me.......girlz there is a guy willing 2 take u 4 u......... there are girlz willing to take u 4 u..... no matter who u r.......  :)   :)   :)   :)  

  even if it doesn't seem it we all love each other  lol, wer all do......... tho ... (more »)

kksexi12 replied...
Nov. 28, 2011 at 8:50 am
sorry about the run on... hi and I love this story
mightierthanthesword said...
Nov. 23, 2011 at 8:55 am
Don't worry! Yes, in the movies, they always go for the gorgeous girls, but since when has hollywood ever reflected reality? I hope you find a great guy who likes you for who you are!
UnwantedNinja replied...
Dec. 29, 2011 at 1:46 am
I totally agree :)
pinkleopard said...
Nov. 19, 2011 at 9:44 pm
It doesn't matter what color your hair is or what color your eyes are if a guy can't except you for who you are then he's probably not worth it. I have noticed that guys also go after your personality too.
bubblesrox10 said...
Nov. 16, 2011 at 6:57 pm

I'm the captain of our cheer squad, and I'm definately the "cheerleader" type. I'm blonde with blue eyes, I'm skinny, I'm popular and I'm super smart (I'm in all advanced classes). But nobody except ONE guy is "falling head-over-heels for me" or has even gone out with me, and he's the quarterback, but I've known him for awhile and we went out before either of us got very popular. So, you can't say that they ALWAYS go for the cheerleader type.

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Kindall.Nicole said...
Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:08 pm
This paragraph is not realistic at all. Yes, I agree that in the movie's the Blonde cheerleaders are always the ones who get the boys. That's not how it is in real life at all. In reality, boys don't care what color your hair or eye's are. If they like you, then they so be it. If not, get over it and move on. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, and blonde har doesn't say anything about how a person acts.
kksexi12 said...
Nov. 8, 2011 at 9:40 pm

 I can agree, but now that I look at it from a new perspective i say that it isn't always true. boys going through puberty look for girlls who just so happen to have more shapeliness.

They will find out what they are missing out on. My boyfriend told me once If they don't like you, they aren't good enough.

  That was then but I still believe it,

i will always love you tristan no matter what.

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