Why are boys so confusing?

September 2, 2009
Why do boys always go for the pretty girls? They have to have the blonde hair and blue eyes! But what about the girls with dark hair and green eyes? Aren't they pretty too? Boys always go for the pretty girls, they want to look popular with those girls and be considered cool cause they go out with the "cute" girls! What's so cute about a ton of blonde cheerleaders thinking they're better then everyone else? In all the movies the blonde cheerleader has the guy at the beginning but then, in the end, the brunette get's him. Why can't it be like that in reality? Boys are so confusing. One moment they are together with the geeky girl, the next moment they are dancing at prom with a cheerleader. Why can't the girls that make sense and are beautiful in there own way be loved. Why are boys so cute, yet so hard.

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kksexi12 said...
Nov. 24, 2011 at 3:54 pm

 hey....... luve this one so much i read it evry time i get on......... happy thaksgiving to the world and thos of u in it with me...... be thankful b-cuz there will always be 1 person out there for me.......girlz there is a guy willing 2 take u 4 u......... there are girlz willing to take u 4 u..... no matter who u r.......  :)   :)   :)   :)  

  even if it doesn't seem it we all love each other  lol, wer all do......... tho ... (more »)

kksexi12 replied...
Nov. 28, 2011 at 8:50 am
sorry about the run on... hi and I love this story
mightierthanthesword said...
Nov. 23, 2011 at 8:55 am
Don't worry! Yes, in the movies, they always go for the gorgeous girls, but since when has hollywood ever reflected reality? I hope you find a great guy who likes you for who you are!
UnwantedNinja replied...
Dec. 29, 2011 at 1:46 am
I totally agree :)
pinkleopard said...
Nov. 19, 2011 at 9:44 pm
It doesn't matter what color your hair is or what color your eyes are if a guy can't except you for who you are then he's probably not worth it. I have noticed that guys also go after your personality too.
bubblesrox10 said...
Nov. 16, 2011 at 6:57 pm

I'm the captain of our cheer squad, and I'm definately the "cheerleader" type. I'm blonde with blue eyes, I'm skinny, I'm popular and I'm super smart (I'm in all advanced classes). But nobody except ONE guy is "falling head-over-heels for me" or has even gone out with me, and he's the quarterback, but I've known him for awhile and we went out before either of us got very popular. So, you can't say that they ALWAYS go for the cheerleader type.

There's a sayin... (more »)

Kindall.Nicole said...
Nov. 9, 2011 at 1:08 pm
This paragraph is not realistic at all. Yes, I agree that in the movie's the Blonde cheerleaders are always the ones who get the boys. That's not how it is in real life at all. In reality, boys don't care what color your hair or eye's are. If they like you, then they so be it. If not, get over it and move on. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, and blonde har doesn't say anything about how a person acts.
kksexi12 said...
Nov. 8, 2011 at 9:40 pm

 I can agree, but now that I look at it from a new perspective i say that it isn't always true. boys going through puberty look for girlls who just so happen to have more shapeliness.

They will find out what they are missing out on. My boyfriend told me once If they don't like you, they aren't good enough.

  That was then but I still believe it,

i will always love you tristan no matter what.

darlingofdarkness replied...
Mar. 12, 2012 at 9:47 am
and now i take it back, screw you tristan w.
MaxRide said...
Nov. 8, 2011 at 12:53 pm

i agree with what you are trying to say, but please forget the BLONDE and BLUE eyes part!

I'm blonde with teal eyes and i have only had one boyfriend.

I know many girls with brown hair and green eyes that have tons of boyfriends.

But i do get what you are saying.  Boys go for the popular and pretty girls instead of the ones that are nice and perfect for them.

MaxRide replied...
Nov. 8, 2011 at 12:53 pm

i also hate how in all the movies the blonde is the evil one.


owl-girl replied...
Nov. 24, 2011 at 8:34 pm
Agreed on the evil blonde thing. I'm blonde and I've only ever had one boyfriend :( plus it's not like there's a line.
TheEarlofZerces said...
Nov. 5, 2011 at 6:08 pm

(Reads post)


(Reads post again)

(Looks at audience)

(Looks back)

Madam, what chemicals are you taking?

jswagg27 said...
Nov. 2, 2011 at 10:57 am


I tottaly get you, like sometimes im like

and hes all noooo i jsut wanna get it in with a blonde girl and im all wtfff why cant you love my dark brown lushious curlss! ),:

jswagg28 replied...
Nov. 2, 2011 at 10:58 am
anon replied...
Feb. 25, 2013 at 1:35 am
i love dark lushious curls!!...but sorry...im interested in a redhead of average atractevness at the moment. personality beats looks for all the guys worth having, but you'l get more guys evaluating your personality if you keep your curls lushious. i look like jon snow from game of thrones...makes me angry how he can keep his hair is less frizzy than mine when he is   busy fighting in a blizzard... TV is never realistic.
BieberLover16 said...
Oct. 30, 2011 at 4:50 pm

Does anyone ever get jealous of those type of girls?

I do sometimes.. :S

lizziebear replied...
Nov. 24, 2011 at 7:04 pm
Most guys are stupid because they can't pick Thea right girls
Skyes said...
Oct. 28, 2011 at 12:49 am

I doesn't matter if you're blonde or not. In my case, I'm blonde, and got blue eyes. I haven't got much boyfriends.

But, there's a girl I know, with dark hair and big brown eyes. She got so many boyfriends I'm lost counting.

You see girls. It doesn't matter. You just need to find the right boy.

paybax1598 replied...
Nov. 7, 2011 at 7:08 pm
i agree, i have blonde hair and blue eyes, and theres nothing wrong with that... there are little to no "popular" girls at my school with blonde hair and blue eyes.  They almost all have dark features.  Ive never had a boyfriend and they have had more than i can count
Afra- said...
Oct. 26, 2011 at 5:34 am
Well, I agree that guys a superficial, but not all of them. Like Dr.Jones said, every guy is different. If you know a guy just likes you becuase of physical attraction, how can you expect that relationship to last? And, in the end it is true, evryone is beautiful, it just takes the right person to see it. Its hard to believe that statement, I know. But, if you aren't the GORGEOUS type or whatever, show your GORGEOUS personality, and people will notice. Don't stereotype yourselves accroding to ch... (more »)
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