It is. If done for the right reasons.

Its neat your kinda updating it :) Yes thank you that is the term I was looking for! Emotionally stressfull.... I think my Mom said that at some point hmmmmm.... My last two and a half years have been pretty emotionally stressful. More for me than my brother, but we kinda got delt diffrent roles. Oddly the  role of knowlege kills all little kido ness you have really. But then if you keep it your left in the dark and sorely un-prepared for the truth to come. My life in ways is getting.... Better.... now..... But in ways definatly worse/diffrent. I can say two years ago i would not think at all I would be where I am now. Even a year ago. Time is fluent though. best to use what we can. Even if it is for worse, in the end it will make us better as a person. And I want to think that is worth SOMETHING now a days.

Yeah this one was from the begining of last year. I was going through an emotionaly stressful time.

Heh i think of lyrics on the bus (well all the time randomly to be fair). I need that right now. Some kind of lifeline. Hope you find yours :) But don't worrie if you don't we can allways take more than we think. It will work out in the end. Hopefully for the better (right now I am getting the worse shrug)