Tell her to hold her tears
NO
Tell her to cry like a baby
NO
Tell her to act like a warrior
NO
Tell her to act like a peasant
NO
Tell her to look up high
NO
Tell her to hold her head down
NO
Tell her to run from herself
NO
Tell her to take a long nap
NO
Tell her she can’t for fear that she might not wake up
NO
Tell her to act and be like a lady
NO 
Tell her to act and be like a B****
NO
Tell her to sit up straight breath in and listen
NO
Tell her to slouch for men fear a superior woman
YES
Tell her she has lost, and the voices she hears telling her she can’t is only the beginning