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Reaction Formation

August 29, 2014
By Anonymous

Decipher the language that I speak

It’s not so hard once you realize

Nothing I say is what I mean

It’s all in my head, it’s in yours too

My body shakes with a cackle

I’m idealistic and shallow

I wouldn’t be very good for you

Only transparent for myself

Could you pretend

I’m someone else 


The author's comments:

Reaction formation is a defense mechanism where a person behaves opposite to how they feel. I see reaction formation in a lot of people, but I find myself using it the most. In my opinion, reaction formation comes up the most when people love eachother especially with teenagers. It's easier to pretend indifference than to show real feelings.  I wanted this poem to show what we put ourselves through when we refuse transparency. 


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