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Fighting to be Feminine
If we wear crop tops and skirts
Shorts that show our hips and dresses revealing our thighs
And painting our faces with makeup and vibrant pigments
Then we are fake
We are trying too hard
And how will boys ever like us?
If we wear sweatpants and oversized shirts
Hats stamped with logos highlighting who we support
And never cover our redness or blotchy skin
Then we are flawed
We are not trying hard enough
And how will boys ever like us?
If we like k-pop, boy bands, and cheesy romance songs
We are stereotypical and young
Another basic teen in a sea of copy-paste girls
If we like old music, alternative, and deep songs that twist our hearts
We're pick me's and trying to be different
Trying to separate ourselves from the rest
If we like girls we get mocked
Have to deal with the fun concept of homophobia
And how it is a constant part of our life
If we like boys we get teased
Because either he's too good for us
Or we’re obsessive over them
Trying to impress them
If we like everyone we get judged
For being greedy
And we’re just confused
But if we don't like anyone
There's something wrong with us
And we haven't met the right person
So tell me what to like
Who to have a crush on
Please, tell me how to appease you
Tell me how to look
What music to listen to
How should I talk?
Can you not tell me?
Funny,
You seemed to be all about telling me
What to do before
We can never be good enough for social acceptance
It will slip away from our fingers the second we stop gripping tight
So at some point, you have to learn to be good enough for yourself
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I wrote this poem from the experience of me and my friends. Growing up as a girl opens you up to constant, and often times contradicting, ideas about how you should live your life. It's so hard to be constantly fighting with yourself about how you wish to be perceived and how you "should" be perceived, as well as which one would make it easier for you to gain the basic amount of human decency and respect from the world. Constantly you are either sexualized or mocked for not being attractive enough as if being attractive is your only worth. The day I started writing this was the day I overheard a classmate making fun of my friend for liking k-pop and being "stereotypical" for her age, a boy watching a tik-tok about how feminists hate men and had to explain that homophobia still very much exists and that I had experienced it. I'm tired of people complaining about the way I exist.