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Grief

November 7, 2023
By Anonymous

When I think of my grandfather, I think of strength, 

the strength to push forward, 

to move on.

But now I can’t, it can’t be, it is.

DenIal


He can’t be gone, not now.

Not like this,

Why’d he have to go?!

Why now?!

Anger


I can fix it, how can I fix this?

Does it take money?

Do I sell my soul?

What should I do?

Bargaining 


There’s nothing I can do,

He’s gone, I didn’t even get to say goodbye.

How do I tell him I miss him?

I can’t.

Depression


It’s okay

He lived a good life, a long life.

He died happy, Happy with his life.

Everything will be okay.

Acceptance 


The author's comments:

This poem is written about my great grandfather, who isn’t dead yet but from what i’ve been told is dying. I don’t know much but there’s apparently a tear in his intestines somewhere, it can be treated but he said it’s not what he wants, he said he was ready to go. I wrote this because the theme made me think of the 5 stages of grief, and that reminded me of my grandpa, so I wrote this about him. The 5 stages of grief are; Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and acceptance. I wrote this poem in order of the stages with a small mental thought process that might be thought throughout the stage, making this poem I did some research on the stages of grief to ensure I wrote it as accurately as possible. I always thought my grandfather was a strong person, even as he got older and older his mentality remained the same, he always remained calm and I don't think ever in my life i’ve seen him angry. Last time I saw my grandpa was his birthday I’m pretty sure, I don’t remember how old he was, it was a little while ago. I should get to see him again on thanksgiving, the whole family usually gets together for thanksgiving, but i'm not sure.


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