What is love? If you say a feeling, you're wrong. That's probably the reason so many marriages and relationships go wrong- because people don't know what love is! Some petty feeling is not enough to base a relationship on! Love is something stronger. It's not an obsession. It's to care about someone. To put someone before yourself. To protect them. To trust them. You love them not for how they look. Not for their personality. You love them just the way they are- on the inside. It means you'll love them even if they're a jerk to you later on, even if they hurt you, you'll still care about them. You'll still want the best for them. You'll still put them before yourself. Most teenagers- even most adults don't understand love because they have a misconception of what love is. Some have felt love but didn't know what it was.