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Why are boys so confusing?

September 2, 2009
By VirginiaHeart BRONZE, Torrance, California
VirginiaHeart BRONZE, Torrance, California
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Good Girls are just Bad Girls who DON'T get Caught! <3


Why do boys always go for the pretty girls? They have to have the blonde hair and blue eyes! But what about the girls with dark hair and green eyes? Aren't they pretty too? Boys always go for the pretty girls, they want to look popular with those girls and be considered cool cause they go out with the "cute" girls! What's so cute about a ton of blonde cheerleaders thinking they're better then everyone else? In all the movies the blonde cheerleader has the guy at the beginning but then, in the end, the brunette get's him. Why can't it be like that in reality? Boys are so confusing. One moment they are together with the geeky girl, the next moment they are dancing at prom with a cheerleader. Why can't the girls that make sense and are beautiful in there own way be loved. Why are boys so cute, yet so hard.


The author's comments:
This was dedicated to a close friend of mine who feels this way.

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ILYSME said...
on Jan. 23 2012 at 10:26 pm
ILYSME, Seattle, Washington
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I don't lie because lying is a cowardly move. It takes courage to tell the truth

I understand that but its just the fact that he stares at her and asked for a bj. I understand that guys are its just... guys like him. I was a little harsh saying that and i shouldn't have been, and I apologize.

on Jan. 23 2012 at 7:43 pm
DavidBliss BRONZE, Upper Marlboro, Maryland
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Since We are all different, We are truly all the same!

you have to understand that guys are a lot more visual than girls ( its been proven.) In general, guys look at appearances , then when they get to know that girl, that's when they decide if they like them or not. But for girls, guys don't display as much as girls, ( body parts) so girls tend to mature faster and have to rely on other things to find that they like in a guy rather than physical features.

ILYSME said...
on Jan. 18 2012 at 7:56 pm
ILYSME, Seattle, Washington
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I don't lie because lying is a cowardly move. It takes courage to tell the truth

Yeah I agree but that guy has problems. I feel a little bad saying that but he has problems

on Jan. 17 2012 at 1:46 pm
bennyB PLATINUM, Memphis, Tennessee
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I find this comment rather wierd becasue were I go to school I think is the opposite, I find it rather hard to find a girl to like me or that likes me

iheartz BRONZE said...
on Jan. 17 2012 at 12:08 pm
iheartz BRONZE, Tulsa, Oklahoma
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searching for answers in a world that answers none of them at all, or My heart can't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with- kelly clarkson

okay, the other one i posted got took down, but still there are girls that look at that stuff on guys,some do some don't...... same with guys.......example this boy stares at my b.oobs ALL the time. whenever we take tests and al he looks there.... he even admitted it, then he asked if i could give him a bj.

iheartz BRONZE said...
on Jan. 17 2012 at 12:04 pm
iheartz BRONZE, Tulsa, Oklahoma
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searching for answers in a world that answers none of them at all, or My heart can't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with- kelly clarkson

you should read what i posted, i said most girls, but i dot think many girls want to look at your "junk"

on Jan. 17 2012 at 10:00 am
JoslynneMarieS BRONZE, Colton, South Dakota
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I believe that life is a prize but to live doesnt mean your alive

Why are there not more of you out in the world?

ILYSME said...
on Jan. 12 2012 at 12:40 pm
ILYSME, Seattle, Washington
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I don't lie because lying is a cowardly move. It takes courage to tell the truth

It does also depend on the group of guys you survey, or even the area you live in. I think its also safe to assume that there are girls who look at more than just some ones eyes and smile.

iheartz BRONZE said...
on Jan. 12 2012 at 9:57 am
iheartz BRONZE, Tulsa, Oklahoma
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searching for answers in a world that answers none of them at all, or My heart can't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with- kelly clarkson

i notice how guys think girls are a certain way, but i've also noticed girls think the same about guys i posted on my experiences, they have gone to the gorgeuos blonde peppy stupid cheerleaders that turn out to be the real S.L.U.T.S..... not all are but from my experience thats what happens

iheartz BRONZE said...
on Jan. 12 2012 at 9:54 am
iheartz BRONZE, Tulsa, Oklahoma
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searching for answers in a world that answers none of them at all, or My heart can't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with- kelly clarkson

yes, 21% of guys (i surveyed 100) look at the face of a girl, 79 others look mainly at ur chest........... just saying, girls look at eyes, smile, body, how much your around them.... we don't look at your junk do we??????

iheartz BRONZE said...
on Jan. 12 2012 at 9:52 am
iheartz BRONZE, Tulsa, Oklahoma
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searching for answers in a world that answers none of them at all, or My heart can't possibly break when it wasn't even whole to start with- kelly clarkson

sometimes it is true, i make guys wscared of me so when i think they are looking, i can get the truth..... most of the time they look at my breasts, not the "oh i was just checking out your shirt design" but your guys so i expect that, it's normal....just look up occasionally...... faces can be as pretty too

ILYSME said...
on Jan. 3 2012 at 9:01 pm
ILYSME, Seattle, Washington
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I don't lie because lying is a cowardly move. It takes courage to tell the truth

That's a stereotypical, jerk guy. A guy worth your time is nothing like this. If a guy is asking for anything more than a girl with their idea of a beautiful personality, you should stay away from them. A guy who looks for eye candy isn't worth your time. There are really great guys out there you just have to avoid the jerks that have become our stereotype.

on Dec. 29 2011 at 2:22 am
UnwantedNinja GOLD, Pretoria, Other
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All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.
Walt Disney

hahahaha Bite ur head !!!! funnii

on Dec. 29 2011 at 1:46 am
UnwantedNinja GOLD, Pretoria, Other
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All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.
Walt Disney

I totally agree :)

yuvalkgn said...
on Dec. 19 2011 at 11:59 pm
Correction: Breasts*

yuvalkgn said...
on Dec. 19 2011 at 11:59 pm
True; girls believe we only look at their breats, body, and face. -_-'

on Dec. 8 2011 at 11:41 pm
StarryRoss GOLD, Albuquerque, New Mexico
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"Writing is the socially acceptable form of schizophrenia." -E.L. Doctorow

hahaha tru that, i feel like i'm the only one who got that, that's hilarious

on Dec. 8 2011 at 11:39 pm
StarryRoss GOLD, Albuquerque, New Mexico
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"Writing is the socially acceptable form of schizophrenia." -E.L. Doctorow

Yeah, i dunno, at our school, the cheerleaders are kind of a joke actually. So blonde cheerleader doesn't apply to me; yeah we kind of have a cool crowd, but nobody really cares much about them anyway. I have to say, i have brown hair and hazel eyes (which nobody believes) and i'm very smart, not a nerd, have lots of friends, and yet i NEVER EVER EVVVERRR got the guy. Ever. Not that they never liked me, i just never got it in the end. Well, jokes on all the cool girls, because i've got the best boyfriend in the world, 8 months, my best friend, who treats me well. I've learned its not at all about the other girls, and all those kinds of guys, its just the right guy, and whenever he comes, he comes, but it doesn't make you any less :)

edthezy54 said...
on Dec. 5 2011 at 11:50 am
edthezy54, Springfield, Massachusetts
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i dont like blond girls but i do like spanish girls

 


ed thezy54 said...
on Dec. 5 2011 at 11:33 am
i like girls for their personality