The Skirt This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine.

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I will be the first to say that I am not materialistic. My friends label me as a goody-goody; my parents say I am conservative and modest when it comes to clothes. I don’t wear bikinis, and none of my skirts or shorts end above my knees. That is my choice.

So why, why did I feel so tempted? My family and I were in Target, and there it was, waiting. A skirt, specifically designed not to cover anything. It was tan and looked like something one of those anime schoolgirls would wear.

I checked my purse. The skirt cost $10. I had the money. I could buy it. I imagined walking into school and my pals’ jaws dropping. Guys would ask me out, and I would be happy. I could buy it – no, I should buy it.

I showed my mother. She was surprised but said it was my decision. My sister looked on enviously.

I went into the dressing room to try it on. So sure was I that this skirt would change me, somehow make me not what I am but what I wished to be. I slid my jeans off and put it on. Now for the decisive moment. I looked in the mirror. There I was – a geeky girl in a Superman T-shirt and sneakers. My glasses fogged up as I started to cry.

The skirt did not change me. Though it fit well and might make me look good in the eyes of ­today’s world, it was not me. I am not a girl who flirts or wears cool clothes to fit in.

I took the thing off and slid back into the ­comfort of modesty. My mom knocked on the door. “Emily, are you okay?”

I wiped away my tears. “I’m fine.” I looked in the ­mirror again and saw a blond skinny girl with dorky ­glasses and a ponytail. I saw myself.

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redhairCat This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Oct. 21, 2010 at 6:39 pm

Really good article!


J.Bee replied...
Oct. 27, 2010 at 11:35 am
This is really good! I know the exact feeling of how people perseve you as. It's the same for me. I like the way it was written. very good!
vetttooo said...
Oct. 20, 2010 at 7:35 am
umm good job on makeing the right choice but why cry i dint get that part of it i mean okur not the girl to wear that stuff and theres nothing wrong with that but why the tears
Lollypops replied...
Nov. 1, 2010 at 11:50 am
loll your nice ^_^
GothChik95 replied...
Jan. 1, 2011 at 2:09 pm
lol so sweet there!
Bibbobbeep said...
Oct. 13, 2010 at 11:00 am
I'm glad that you made a right choice. this writing was very good and i enjoyed reading about your experiences
vietnamesequinn said...
Oct. 13, 2010 at 11:00 am
exactly wat  tiedyelaine123 said if its not you then its  not you be yourself
tiedyeelaine123 said...
Oct. 13, 2010 at 9:25 am
It's good to know that you are content with being yourself.
akatheshizz said...
Oct. 13, 2010 at 9:21 am
dont be afraid to be yourself. Nothing is more imoprtant. Dont let "the skirt" phase you or let insecruties either(:
nillahershey said...
Oct. 11, 2010 at 8:33 pm
Yes, I couldn't agree more. There's nothing wrong with being different. Never be afraid to be yourself; there is nothing to be ashamed of. Don't be a follower-- be a leader!
choirchick2013 said...
Oct. 7, 2010 at 8:10 pm
kudos to you for just being yourself, even if its not cool... i know wat u mean... i was tempted to try to fit in too, then i thought "is it worth it??" i found it wasnt, and u did too... dont change urself to please anyone but urself...
Thrush said...
Sept. 2, 2010 at 2:28 pm
This is amazing. I love it.
Nazneen replied...
Sept. 6, 2010 at 11:58 am
it is really nice...... ur writing is really nice..
SamiLynn said...
Aug. 29, 2010 at 1:24 pm
This is a very true article! I had the same feelings for a long time, when I finally tried on a pair of "shorty shorts." I had always hated them. Now I don't, but it's only because now was the right time for me to try them. I wouldn't have DARED before! Never wear something thst you're uncomfortable with!
_Christina_ This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Aug. 22, 2010 at 2:19 pm
Very well written and totally easy to relate to. Thank you for sharing this. I wish more people felt that way - stay true to yourself. 
XxStarBurstxX said...
Aug. 22, 2010 at 2:15 pm
I love this. I feel how you do..I sometimes feel tempted to wear those somewhat skimpy clothes, and sometimes I have but I just end up feeling uncomfortable. Don't bu upset for being comfortable and you..many people like you for that. And if some people don't then they miss out on knowing someone as honest out of the crowd as you.
CaityBug replied...
Aug. 22, 2010 at 4:34 pm
They're right, be yourself, no matter what anyone says, and you and everyone else will be more comfortable. All that matters is what you think of yourself. Remember that.
Katie_Potatie said...
Aug. 22, 2010 at 11:38 am
I connected immeidiatly. I've been there my WHOLE life. Just 2 years ago was my turning point. I'm a sophomore now and way different, but i cried in many of dressing rooms and I feel the pain. This is beautiful and I hope you never stop writing. =)
annika_katryn said...
Jul. 31, 2010 at 7:40 pm
your story was beautiful, as you, yourself, are beautiful. thank you for being who you are, and for sharing you with us.
RiverAnn said...
Jul. 31, 2010 at 4:15 pm

I know exactly how you feel- i feel uncomfortable in immodest clothing.  Way to go girl for staying true to yourself!


balla97 replied...
Oct. 13, 2010 at 2:09 pm
Girls with those short skirts are sexy
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