The idea of fitting in. The idea of being like everyone else. The idea of neglecting who you really are to please people who will never really care. Bullying. Fat, skinny, ugly, mutt, adopted, blacky, queen of the naps, short, big foot, nerd. If I'm all that then, that is who I am, I can't and won't change for anyone. Why is it so hard for people to realize that calling other people names, won't help their confidence? When will people realize that the only person you should ever try to please is God. When will we ever learn that a bully is a person who was hurt so much when they were younger that they feel strong and invincible, like no one can ever hurt them again, although all they do is hurt others. You will never be enough to please a person who never cared in the first place. Don't change and be strong. God loves you.