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What Adults Don't Understand

By , Bon Aqua, TN
My mom was reading one of the poems of this magazine the other day, and she did something that really irked me. She was reading a poem from the February issue, Nothing Like. When she was finnished reading, she let out a 'humph', like she didn't actually belive that "kids" like us could know what love is yet. Like love is only for responsible adults. Well let me say something right here and right now: By the time you are thirteen, you have probably been in love. There I said it. Now people can argue about it.




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JesusandHisLawyersThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. said...
today at 7:06 pm:
You know it's over when you start agreeing with the parents: but your mother is correct. Teenagers don't have the maturity to understand the kind of commitment that comes with "true love" or whatever wishy-washy romantic term you want to use for it. Kids are selfish and posses very short attention spams, the next shiny new thing comes along, and they're in love all over again. 
 
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beoptimistic said...
Sept. 29, 2013 at 8:56 pm:
this is perfect. preach it
 
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hayliebeanThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. said...
Sept. 17, 2013 at 10:45 am:
I think that everyone is different.  Some people have a hard time loving or feeling love, while others may love too easily.  So, no I don't think that everyone who is thirteen has been in love, but some probably have.  I am one of those people who tends to love too easily.
 
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xo_zozoThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. said...
Apr. 30, 2013 at 8:35 pm:
While I agree with this for the most part, I also think that it's not entirely true.   
It is totally unfair for someone (adult or otherwise) to tell anyone else (any age) that they've never been in love, and/or are too young to have been in love, it is true that as you get older, being in love means something different.   
WHile it is entirely possible, and even probable that almost everyone has been in love by the time they are thirteen, being in love wh... (more »)
 
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dragonsandthree said...
Apr. 30, 2013 at 10:39 am:
I agree with you.
 
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lizzi_420 said...
Mar. 19, 2013 at 5:43 pm:
you are so right
 
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CRAZYxBUNNI said...
Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:12 am:
I agree with you.
 
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CRAZYxBUNNI said...
Jan. 28, 2013 at 10:09 am:
The thing is all adult were our age once and fell in love at a young age. So I personally think that they shouldn't yap at us about it. I believe that the mass majoity of today's youth is not going to end up like Romeo and Juliet.
 
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Marcie said...
Jan. 24, 2013 at 1:28 am:
The ability to love does not have an age:) its true that teenagers arent usually in love but it can happne!
 
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bennyB said...
Jan. 17, 2012 at 1:49 pm:
I think adults think the way they do is becasue they are kind of right. I mean teens are one day with a person and next week with an other, so i think that they could be right, partially
 
INHAILED replied...
Jan. 30, 2012 at 11:29 pm :
I agree. I'm not saying there isn't teen love, but I believe most teen/high school relationships don't share mutual love. eyes-on-fire made a good point as well.
 
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eyes-on-fire said...
Nov. 20, 2011 at 4:59 pm:

I believe that teenagers do fall in love... we just have more trouble identifying love as compared to lust, and thus adults think we are dumb kids who don't know what love is.

Dumbledore said "Age is foolish and forgetful when it underestimates youth", and he's awesome. And old.

 
yaythisisavailableThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 28, 2011 at 8:07 pm :
you're my new role model :)
 
UnwantedNinja replied...
Dec. 29, 2011 at 2:26 am :
Sweet qoute lol !!!
 
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Dec. 29, 2011 at 11:28 am :
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UnwantedNinja replied...
Dec. 30, 2011 at 9:48 am :
will do :)
 
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andromeda13 said...
Sept. 9, 2011 at 7:05 pm:
i only have to say one thing: what idiots think that there is  an age limit on an emotion? that's like saying teens can't get depressed or stressed out or happy. 
 
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Grownup said...
Sept. 9, 2011 at 9:13 am:
You children don't know what love is. Your all too busy wrapped up in your hipp hop fasion crazes.
 
tAK3N,BY DA BESt replied...
Sept. 9, 2011 at 3:01 pm :

HERE WEEEEEEE GO TO YOUNG ;''',./.,/.,THATS I LIE.......AND IM PASS FROM THINKNN IM N LOVE I KNOWWW IAM,I WAS N LOVE WEN I WAS 12 YEARS OLD.....IAM 15 NOW AND IAM STILL WITH DA SAME PERSON N HAPPY N LOVE

 

 
yaythisisavailableThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. replied...
Dec. 28, 2011 at 8:09 pm :
I'm fifteen and I'm in love with this guy, you really don't have a place to say that teenagers can't be in love. We have just the same amount of emotion as you people, maybe we seem too immature to love. Just because we don't meet at a bar or in church does not mean the person we are with doesn't love us. Most of the time teenage love doesn't last because we are scared. Adults are just stupid.
 
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