I know how it feel's to have no dad until your six year's old. When your father's sister tell's you he is dead. But a month later he call's you telling you alive. Then leave's you three time's after that. But the anger held inside, the hate, and the heart ache. Isn't your fault...It's nobody's fault, but it's your decison if you really want him in your life or not. But for the people that are dealing with this, I can only tell you if he's tryig keep him in your life. But if he isnt and he is making your life misserable, then leave him.