Why are boys so confusing?

September 2, 2009
Why do boys always go for the pretty girls? They have to have the blonde hair and blue eyes! But what about the girls with dark hair and green eyes? Aren't they pretty too? Boys always go for the pretty girls, they want to look popular with those girls and be considered cool cause they go out with the "cute" girls! What's so cute about a ton of blonde cheerleaders thinking they're better then everyone else? In all the movies the blonde cheerleader has the guy at the beginning but then, in the end, the brunette get's him. Why can't it be like that in reality? Boys are so confusing. One moment they are together with the geeky girl, the next moment they are dancing at prom with a cheerleader. Why can't the girls that make sense and are beautiful in there own way be loved. Why are boys so cute, yet so hard.

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nycbunny said...
May 28, 2010 at 4:03 pm
ok im sorry but... this is not exactly true. you have to look at things from a different angle. maybe your just looking at the wrong kind of guys.
peaceluvpups replied...
May 28, 2010 at 8:04 pm
Or its just that you havent came across someone yet that loves you for you! Just wait!
VarsityCheerGirl916 said...
May 23, 2010 at 8:58 pm
First off I just want to say that I am not trying to be negative in any way whatsoever but as I was reading this article many things caught my attention and dissaproval. One of these is the blonde hair and blue eyes. This is a complete stereotype unless you are Hitler or a Nazi. Every guy has their own preference for what attracts them in the opposite gender. I am a brunette with brown eyes and I have no problem finding a good guy. The biggest problem I have with this is the stereotype you have ... (more »)
MercedesXO replied...
Jul. 7, 2010 at 11:39 pm
i love how you put all of this and how you worded it. i liked your oppinion (and agree with you) and i also like that at the ending you still gave the writer credit for the main idea that they portrayed..guys ARE confusing. but in all honestly....arent we all?
chihuahuaman said...
May 23, 2010 at 7:44 pm
Personally i dont get the whole blonde fetish. i mean sure blondes are cute and hot but i myself could care less. i like a gril with peronality, a girl that when you talk to her she has something relevant to say and doesnt just respond with "yea". just so ypu know right now im talking to a gril with brown hair and like her very much (:
MercedesXO replied...
Jul. 7, 2010 at 11:42 pm

guys like you are so attractive. i like that you explained how your different and not alll out to get the "so called blonde sex goddess or whatever". that's cute and i like that your into girls with a personality and intelligent mind rather than just her looks.

SEE!! there are some of them out there guys. lol. extremely hard to find, ill admit.

jesus_lover98 replied...
Jul. 28, 2010 at 10:32 am
wow. well, i go to church, and school, w/ alot of guys that r like that, out to get a gurl dumb as a stump, as long as she's hot, they dont care. but i admire you, at least you tell it straight :)
pokerface said...
May 23, 2010 at 8:26 am
i completely agree with u. ive got no clue why boys do it
songofsadness said...
May 20, 2010 at 5:32 pm
i like personality, and i like the more unrecognized girls that have brains and lookes more so brains and i like girls that can get through trouble and still love the more depressed people and help them be happier
MercedesXO replied...
Jul. 7, 2010 at 11:44 pm
i like your comment..and i like exactly what you described. except from a girls perspective. lol. i like those guys:)
MoonlitRaven said...
May 17, 2010 at 9:00 pm
Personally myself i like girls with deep auburn hair and green eyes, but overall to me it doesn't really make a difference. personallity is the best
The_End said...
May 12, 2010 at 11:09 pm
The whole "blonde and blue-eyed" thing really stereotypes the whole thing, but all I can say for us guys is that not every guy is like that. Oh...and while this definitely applies to girls too, I have to say it's all about the choice of an individual, nothing more.
wildcat said...
May 12, 2010 at 10:03 pm
i am a blonde girl with hazel eyes that change six diffenet colors, (which is irelevant i just love that fact about me and needed to share it before i made my point.) point is im not a cheerleader although i tired to be but the couc h said my back was too flexible, whatever that means, but i cant find a guy. havent had a boyfriend in about two years. I'm not popular but not a geek just person walking through the halls.... so see im one example of a blonde that doesnt get the guy....and i've had ... (more »)
chihuahuaman replied...
May 23, 2010 at 7:46 pm
i bet your beautiful. and really two years??!! im so sorry T_T. u sound real cool to me.
wildcat replied...
May 24, 2010 at 5:21 pm
haha aww thanks. and compared to the girls littered throughout my town id say im pretty real....
♥♫music4ever25♥♫ replied...
Jul. 28, 2010 at 2:15 am
you pretty much just summed up my life (right down to not being able to be on cheer because of some lame excuse of a coach) and i agree.
EmoToboe said...
May 12, 2010 at 10:16 am

Why are girls so confusing?

Sometimes they are there for you, when uncontrollable, unexpressed emotions are tearing you apart from the inside, you can take it any more and you give in to an explosion of swearing an tears. She is there with a concerned look, she stands next to you after class to make sure you are ok.

Later after you have mustered all of your courage in yourself, you confess your feelings for her. You are standing there with the fluttering in your heart; hope over... (more »)

brooklynn. said...
May 9, 2010 at 10:02 am
Not all guys are like that. Just like girls, there are a bunch of guys out there with great personalities. There's a huge variation to choose from! It seems like you're just looking at the ones who are snobby. Open your eyes, there's good guys everywhere, and some of them are cute too. This article's kind of degrading.
DaisyC. said...
May 8, 2010 at 5:05 pm

It is totally crazy how much the blond hair blue eyes sterotype has corrupted our minds!

I mean there are girls who don't look this way and therefor fell under apreciated because of it.

And there are also guys who do go for the blond haired blue eyed girls (not all just some!!!) because that what our culturwe defines as beauty.

This is totally out odf control!!!

Rachael P. said...
May 7, 2010 at 4:28 pm
so true so true stupid boys left me broken hearted. one day this guy is flirting with me next thing you know he acts like i dont even excist
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