Be a Man MAG

September 12, 2011
By Anonymous

As a 17-year-old male, I don't cry. I can't even remember the last time I did. I have friends who don't cry and a dad who doesn't cry. I have been told to “man up and stop crying.” That's the way it is: babies cry, and women cry, but real men don't cry. I don't cry. On Sunday, September 11, 2011, however, I broke my rule.

That previous Friday, I had attended an assembly to mark the 10-year anniversary of 9/11. California resident Mike Noble, who was in the South Tower during the attacks, recounted his experience on that horrible day. Thankfully, he survived, but it wasn't his near demise that stuck with me. What did were the iconic images of violence he recalled. Of course, being the man that I am, I didn't shed a tear.

The next morning, Saturday, was the ACT – my last opportunity to attempt to make this particular standardized test reflect my capability. No big deal. Sure, I was stressed, but crying wasn't even a remote possibility.

Sunday, September 11 was a good day. I finished most of my homework early, visited the Los Angeles County Museum of Art, and stopped at my favorite burger joint on the way home. When I got home I was upset to find out that my fantasy football team had done terribly, but that certainly wasn't cause for tears.

I continued my day working in my room, and my mom paid me a visit. My mom and I have one of the best relationships in the world, and I love her dearly, but when she chews me out, she makes me feel terrible. I wasn't going to cry because of my mommy, though.

That evening, from the room down the hall, I heard the TV special on 9/11. I listened to George W. Bush and reporters and footage of the attacks. Then I heard a reporter say, “What stood as the Twin Towers is no longer recognizable; they're gone.”

I don't know what about that particular sentence pushed me over the edge, but my eyes started stinging and tears began to flow down my cheeks. My nose ran, and my cheeks burned. I wiped my eyes and sniffled once or twice, and maybe a minute later I was done. It passed, and I felt great – refreshed and wholesome.

I'm not sure why there is the taboo that forbids men from crying, but I decided there shouldn't be. That day I thought about crying and manliness, and how I didn't care. I thought of my friends and what they would say, and how I didn't care. I thought about what this means about me, and I decided that sometimes the best option is to just man up and cry.

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on Sep. 26 2012 at 9:47 am
GabeKahan BRONZE, Bethesda, Maryland
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Favorite Quote:
"Hello darkness my old friend, I've walked into this wall again."
"Never tell your problems to anyone...20% don't care and the other 80% are glad you have them." -Lou Holtz

Great writing, great story, great conclusion.

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