When a life ends so abruptly, without a warning nor a means. How do we remember that person? Are they remembered as friend or foe? What are the first memories to come to mind? Is it their first step, first word, or first day at school? Or maybe it's the first day you met, and you found them a little wierd. For some the memories may be more resent. Like that person's wedding, and entrance into a new family. Or the last time they where seen by a loved one.