The hardest part of losing someone is saying goodbye. I don't know how it feels to lose a sibling, but i do know what it feels like to lose the one thing that you love the most. I lost my best friend. I wasn’t home, it was her first encounter with fireworks; she got scared and hid in the spider infested shed. I don't know exactly how she died. Whether it was the heat or the spiders poison, I still lost her because I wasn't there to protect her. That happened last year, I still haven't said goodbye. I can relate to Aviva Katz in her article “goodbye”in many ways. It take a lot of strength to say goodbye to someone who meant so much to you