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Dear Father
Dear father,
I am me
I am my own person
And I make my own choices
You are you
And you are your own person
And you make your own choices
But sometimes those choices hurt
I’ve had to leave people in my life
The ones that have hurt me
I am different
I know I am
Everyone knows I am
I was born wrong
With the wrong parts
The wrong brain
The wrong everything
But I am me
And I can’t help what I am
You hurt me
You fill me with emptiness like a black hole that swallows up time and space
I am me
And I take things to heart
I feel everything to the highest degree possible
And when you hurt me
It feels like a million needles stabbing into me
All twisted one by one
I am me
And I can’t help what I am
I know that I am different
I know
I know
You are you
And I can accept that
I am me
Why can’t you accept that too?
I can fix what I am
I can make everything right
You can too
If you stop throwing those long, sharp daggers at me
The ones the penetrate deep into me with the force of a thousand men
If you stop throwing all of your hate at me
You too can feel better
You too can be new
I am me
And I want to be me
I like who I am
You are you
And you want to be you
You like who you are
What if someone hurt you too.
What if they stripped you of your thick layer of skin like you did me.
Think of that before you dig that knife deep into me
Going right through my rib cage hitting my lungs
making it so I can’t manage to take in a breath of air
Think of how you would feel if I didn’t accept you
If I hurt you like you hurt me
Think
I am me
And I will not change for you
I will never stop fighting this intense battle that fills my eyes
with tears every single time I breathe.
You are sitting in my way like a brick wall reaching towards space and too
far across for me to run.
I don’t need you to be true to myself
You do not make my choices for me
You are not me
I am me
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This poem is about my struggle with coming out to my father as transgender. I wrote this poem trying to make it open to anyone's situation. It's all about struggle and how much it can affect you.