friends come and go but family will always be there. but best friends close or distant will be there for eternity.you may fight but you should know it will make you stronger. but dont always count on your friends be there for them too. but family probably went through the same thing and can help you but looks are deceiving they may be older but maybe not wiser. thats why i choose non of the above. because you never know who you talk to will bethe right to talk to.