We always tell each other that we want a guy who is sweet and can understand us and be there for us, But when its right in front of our face, we always overlook him or say he's not our type or jus want to be friends and go for the guy who we know already is going to hurt you and pay you hardly any attention or treat you like crap. Why do we tell each other this when we really don't mean it. I mean we may not notice that we don't mean it because its like that answer is stuck in a fantasy of a perfect world in your mind. But when it comes to reality, what your saying isn't really what you want. Its the total opposite.