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Living With Alsheimers

November 19, 2016
By Brian_Urvater BRONZE, New City, New York
Brian_Urvater BRONZE, New City, New York
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She lies there quiet and confused;
Can barely sound her voice,
Seclusion from society
Was clearly her last choice.


Declination every week
We see difficulty
I never thought in my lifetime
she won’t remember me.


Hard work it is to babysit
A non-responsive brain
Illogical, false sentences,
And long unending pain.

The hospital is one short call
Can’t rid of one adored
But this loved one is not herself,
Herself is now ignored.


It’s odd to watch a person change
To someone they oppose
When their primary being was
as gorgeous as a rose.


Now, all we have left to do
Is remember her before.
Back before disaster hit
This person we adore.


I often think a lot about
How hard that it can be.
The thought that someone dear to you
You are forced to set free.


Knowing after a year of struggles,
Her spirit was released,
All that I can hope
Is that my nana is at peace.


The author's comments:

My grandma moved in with us for a year before she passed away. We were very close and had amazing memories. It was hard to watch someone who had one of my favorite personalities change in the blink of any eye. This poem is meant to represent the horror and sadness of living with your loved one and watching them regress from their prior selves. I sometimes feel that people who have never experienced this will not understand what it is like. Therefore, I want to teach the reader what it can feel like.


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