I have learned that life is what it is. You have to take what happens and learn from it, and remember better will find you if you deserve it. You can not stay stuck in the past or you will feel like you lost yourself. Only you can save yourself. If people hurt you let it go because it's their fault, and only care about those who care about you. Stay strong and accept yourself for who you are, don't try to be someone your not because otherwise no one will know the real you. Live life while you can because you never know what the future holds. It could be a day or many years, either way live in the present and stop worrying so you can have something to remember when you look back on your life.