Too love and to be loved. Are they two different things or one? I would say two different things. Because loving is your part. But for you to be loved. It is their choice on if they want that to be their part or not. You can’t love for their money or because they are cute. You love for many reasons. They can be sweet, sensitive, loving, caring and wonderful. Maybe even funny, goofy, loving and caring. Love is special you can’t just love to love or to be loved. It doesn’t work that way. If they don’t love you for whom you are. That is not true love.