A TRUE FRIEND IS......

August 16, 2010
By Jesusandwordsfanatic PLATINUM, Fayetteville, North Carolina
Jesusandwordsfanatic PLATINUM, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
Romans 14:8-For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live therefore, or die, we are the Lord's.


Ya’ll know that I’ve written about friendship before, but this time I’m gunna talk about the people…not the act.


What is a friend?
How do you treat them?
Do you have many? –if not…..have you figured out why?

Most people think that these questions are mainly for kids and their friends, but it’s a lifetime topic.

A friend is typically a non-relative that either shares the same interests as you, or you just enjoy being together so much that you don’t bother with the fact that you’re perhaps opposites. Normally if you are opposites, you won’t stay in a healthy relationship; you’ll start fighting, disagreeing on morals and standards, and just contrasting on everything! A true friend though, should have respect for your beliefs, so then you shouldn’t be bickering. Now if you completely disagree then you shouldn’t remain friends; you can stay cordial, but not friends. Example: I am a Christian. If I were to go to a public school which thankfully I do not, but if I were, I shouldn’t make strong ties with non-believers if my faith is new or if I struggle a lot; because those friends could cause me to stray away from my faith. If however I do have a strong faith and testimony which I believe I do, I would be able to have non-believing friends and keep my faith by standing up for it and calmly proving that friend wrong with Scripture.
A friend is someone who shares your emotion. If you’re sad and they love you, they’ll be sad if anything just at the fact that you’re sad! And the same for all the other emotions.
A friend sticketh closer than a brother(-Bible) as I have already written before. I mean really…who tells their siblings more than what they tell their friends? Not many. Not only is that how close they are, but it says that they stick with you closer than a brother. Well a brother is a brother till death! They can’t just stop being your sibling by doing anything technically, because they have your same blood, name, and DNA. (disownment doesn’t count) If that’s how close a brother is, just imagine how much closer a true friend is.
A friend is one who even through a fight as I have experienced still wants to call or txt or hang out. They just can’t stay mad at you forever. They love you and they need love back.
A friend is so many other things that I know that I could write for days in length with my personal experiences and examples and truths that I won’t….for your sakes lol.

Well now that we know what a friend is, how do you treat them? Is your idea of a friend becoming the leader of your little clique and having people who follow you around because you’re cool, pretty, smart, buff, whatever and not even care about who you guys really are? That’s just ludicrous! And not true friendship at all! The Bible says to treat others as you would have them to treat you. Now if you would like them to treat you the way a ruthless leader of a clique normally does than you’ve got some problems. I haven’t met anyone who’s ever wanted to be treated that way. The way you should treat your friends is by telling them things about them that make you like them and make you want to be their friend. You should treat them with respect, love, compassion, honesty, and conductive criticism. If you would want your friend to help you mature and grow then you should do the same for them.
This is probably the most difficult question to speak the truth about amongst the three. Think about it….do you have many friends? If so are they the right kind of friends? Friends that love you and you love them; friends that call when they haven’t heard from you in a couple of days or so; friends who still talk to you even when you’ve had a fight. If so then you must be somewhat of a good person lol and you are blessed. Your reward from God is true, good friends. If you don’t have many….I need to ask why? Look at your life and incidents where you’ve been around people and go through the scenario. Did you treat them the way you’d have wanted to be treated? Did you choose the right crowd of people? And ask any more questions that fit the specific scenario. If you did any of these wrong then…there’s your answer as to why you only have a few if any friends. I’m sorry to say, but it’s true…if you’re a jerk to people you’re not going to be liked. Would you like someone who was a jerk to you? I should hope not….

I hope these commentaries on these questions have helped. I hope you take my advice and use it. If you would like me to pray for you just comment on this and ask and I will be glad to pray for you. Some of you may be like ‘ok I agree with that so I’ll use that, but oh that’s Bible stuff…I…I...I won’t believe that.’ Well I want to ask this and I want you to think about it very hard.
Just because you don’t believe in the Bible, don’t you agree that it seems logical? Doesn’t it make sense? Doesn’t it seem like it would work?
Please think about it and just give it a try…if it works, maybe even consider giving God a try. I’m here for any more advice about anything or any questions you may have. (my dad is a pastor so I’m well knowledge lol)

The author's comments:
I know that this is something that if we can get a hold of the truth and learn how to handle it our world and our lives will be a better and easier and friendlier place. This is my opinion and the truth...I believe with all my heart. Hope it helps.

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on Jan. 18 2011 at 10:30 am
Jesusandwordsfanatic PLATINUM, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
Romans 14:8-For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live therefore, or die, we are the Lord's.

thanks for stickn up for me! and i dont even knw you! lol i was actly tryn to apologize to kelz1141, but the thing wuldnt let me post it so.....and powerwriter is my friend from school btw lol also, calln me mr/miss finatic is buz my screen name is "jesusandwordsfinaatic" so...ya lol

 


on Dec. 16 2010 at 9:06 am
TheEdgar PLATINUM, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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"If you are in need of forgetting something, make a note to remember it."

then that makes two of us XP XD

KellyR GOLD said...
on Dec. 15 2010 at 5:09 pm
KellyR GOLD, Richmond, Virginia
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We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.

Lol Way to flip out after all of the problems have already been addressed. Now, that everything has already been sorted out that comment just makes you seem like a jerk without a point. Good Job.

on Dec. 13 2010 at 9:42 am
TheEdgar PLATINUM, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
"If you are in need of forgetting something, make a note to remember it."

Look. Three things. One- This site is meant for people to come and speak there minds right down their thoughts and enjoy other works. Two- You can not critisize what you've never read. Three- EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES GET OVER IT. I guarentee you've made mistakes too! BIG WHOOP. and maybe you werent trying to be rude but the way you stated it didnt help your case. And also calling people snobby is also rude. And yes also calling someone a mr/miss finatic isnt exactly called for. so chill. or no one will be your friend, (hint hint the article above!) and yes this message is rude but at least i acknowledge that!

powerwriter said...
on Dec. 5 2010 at 8:46 am
powerwriter, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Life and happiness never comes easy. It is attained through hard work and perseverance.

its fine. i should have jumped your case iether. so sorry about that

KellyR GOLD said...
on Dec. 4 2010 at 7:09 pm
KellyR GOLD, Richmond, Virginia
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Favorite Quote:
We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.

Okay, I'm sorry I did not mean for it to sound rude or anything.

powerwriter said...
on Dec. 4 2010 at 4:14 pm
powerwriter, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
Life and happiness never comes easy. It is attained through hard work and perseverance.

your right, we did kinda gang up on you. sorry about that. i do realize now that u were trying to help, but u seemed a little... too forward in doing it. when u said that u didnt get past the first sentence... it did seem pretty rude. and if u really want to help, maybe next time, read the whole thing, so that way u can offer more imput than telling them they have bad grammar lol.

KellyR GOLD said...
on Dec. 4 2010 at 1:46 pm
KellyR GOLD, Richmond, Virginia
14 articles 0 photos 258 comments

Favorite Quote:
We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.

Well, I think if she really didn't want the issue pressed further she wouldn't have continued to comment with things for me to rebuttal. Also, I think i was doing it in a very polite way, and it makes me a little angry that not only was she being rude to me, but you two were ganging up on me. I certainly didn't mean to cause an altercation, really just trying to help.

powerwriter said...
on Dec. 4 2010 at 8:04 am
powerwriter, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
Life and happiness never comes easy. It is attained through hard work and perseverance.

only when it comes to informal stuff dude. i wouldnt turn in a paper to be published with incorrect grammar. u are definitely right with that kelz. my only issue with this was finatic already knew it and u were still saying something. i do believe correct spelling is important, but it is ok to be lenient in some things.

KellyR GOLD said...
on Dec. 3 2010 at 10:50 pm
KellyR GOLD, Richmond, Virginia
14 articles 0 photos 258 comments

Favorite Quote:
We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.

Well, I'm so glad the youth of our nation things spelling and grammar are petty and unimportant. We are in good hands!

powerwriter said...
on Dec. 3 2010 at 9:41 pm
powerwriter, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
Life and happiness never comes easy. It is attained through hard work and perseverance.

um... yeah this site is actually for writing... not criticizing other people on petty things... but whatever

KellyR GOLD said...
on Dec. 3 2010 at 5:11 pm
KellyR GOLD, Richmond, Virginia
14 articles 0 photos 258 comments

Favorite Quote:
We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.

Honestly, just trying to help for next time, but whatever. She obviously can't handle constructive critisizm even though that is what this site it intended for.

powerwriter said...
on Dec. 1 2010 at 12:28 pm
powerwriter, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
Life and happiness never comes easy. It is attained through hard work and perseverance.

ha thanks finatic i will keep that in my mind

on Dec. 1 2010 at 12:26 pm
Jesusandwordsfanatic PLATINUM, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
Romans 14:8-For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live therefore, or die, we are the Lord's.

yes....u r....and it is something you need to work on ;)

powerwriter said...
on Dec. 1 2010 at 12:11 pm
powerwriter, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
Life and happiness never comes easy. It is attained through hard work and perseverance.

ok dude first of all i really dont think mr/mrs "finatic" was being snooty. Plus how is it helping someone saying u didnt even read it because of gramatical errors. ur reasoning is slightly off... grammar errors are petty anyways and its even pettier telling someone they have them. Obviously this person already knew he/she had them so saying something about it is just being repetitive and beligerant. im not saying you are beligerant. just what u were saying seemed that way. i like reading and this person seemed to do a good job in presenting their view. instead of just criticizing this person you should have commended the work. (please excuse my frankness. i am usually even more blunt in person lol)

on Nov. 21 2010 at 7:38 pm
Jesusandwordsfanatic PLATINUM, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
Romans 14:8-For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live therefore, or die, we are the Lord's.

thank you so much and I won't. =) I rly appreciate that.....

powerwriter said...
on Nov. 19 2010 at 9:07 pm
powerwriter, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
Life and happiness never comes easy. It is attained through hard work and perseverance.

honestly Mr./Mrs finatic, i enjoy reading your articles. dont let people like kelz irritate you with their higher than though art grammar condescention.

KellyR GOLD said...
on Nov. 19 2010 at 1:02 pm
KellyR GOLD, Richmond, Virginia
14 articles 0 photos 258 comments

Favorite Quote:
We don't read and write poetry because it's cute. We read and write poetry because we are members of the human race. And the human race is filled with passion. And medicine, law, business, engineering, these are noble pursuits and necessary to sustain life. But poetry, beauty, romance, love, these are what we stay alive for.

Well, first of all I am not sure why you are being snooty when I was simply trying to help you. Secondly, spelling one or two things in a comment is different then using grammar incorrectly in an article. Lastly, I know I sometimes spell things oncorrectly, when did I ever say I never used incorrect grammar and spelling? Everyone does! I was just trying to help you, but excuse me if that offends you.

powerwriter said...
on Nov. 19 2010 at 12:28 pm
powerwriter, Fayetteville, North Carolina
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Favorite Quote:
Life and happiness never comes easy. It is attained through hard work and perseverance.

Kelz, i have to say... i do not think its is right to say stuff to someone about their grammar issues. I mean... find something better to do with your time than correct a someone on a informally written paper.

on Nov. 19 2010 at 12:05 pm
Jesusandwordsfanatic PLATINUM, Fayetteville, North Carolina
49 articles 0 photos 31 comments

Favorite Quote:
Romans 14:8-For whether we live, we live unto the Lord; and whether we die, we die unto the Lord: whether we live therefore, or die, we are the Lord's.

also....I would take your suggestions into consideration if you spelled the words in your own comments correctly; I think it is wrong to tell someone they should do something when they themselves do not do it. Matt 7:5 (I believe) says not to point out the mote in others (my) eye when you have a beam of your own in yours. =)


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