Runaway Love

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Every year about 1-3 million kids are runaways or homeless living on the streets. This statistic got my attention and reminded me of a song called Runaway love. I know most have heard the song titled runaway love by Mary J. Blige and Ludachris. To me this song is a really magnificent! This song is important because it explains some of the things that moms do not understand is going on for most of the teenage girls out there. For these two popular singers to understand that is a huge step for adults. I think that these two should get together more and make more songs like this explaining all the things that are going on for teenagers these days because they are some good singers.

The song is about some teenage girls going through some hardships in their life. They are going through rapes and doing drugs. One girl goes through having sex at 11 years old and gets pregnant and then she tells the father of the baby and he tells her to go away because it is not his. Also he was not ready for a kid. The child is not able to go home because she knows that her mom will blow it all out of proportion. All the other girls are also going through a lot but not as much as this one girl went through. She lost everyone that loved her.

I have wanted to runaway several times in my life because of things I have seen. I have watched family members getting beaten on and I wanted to kill the guy or just runaway so that I do not hurt anyone. I felt like a car without breaks. I just could not stop I was going on a rampage. I made sure that the way I was going I would try to get off by myself just so that I would not hurt anyone ever. I have gotten into fights because of things I saw because the next day people were making fun of those things. I am just trying to make sure that those things do not happen again. I want all the teens that read this especially boys NEED to understand that carrying anger or fighting all the time is not good. Explain what it has done to you.

The other singers that are not addressing this violence need to follow these singers lead and start because we need more songs like this that can show parents the things that they are missing. Ludachris is a really good singer and he is singing like this. This comes to show that the other singers like Eminem and Lil Wayne can sing like this to. I think they should at least take a shot at it so that they can see how people like it instead of making fun of the ones who do. I would love to see more songs like this. T.i has made a song of how people can be bad at one point in time and then change into someone who dose not get into trouble anymore. His song Dead and gone is the song that I am referring to. If you have not heard that song i suggest that you go to youtube or anywhere you can and look it up.

Teenage girls are not the only ones who can go through these problems teenage boys can also suffer because of domestic violence. They may not suffer from rape but teenage boys can have the urge to want to runaway. We can get into fights with our stepdads if we have some and then we want to runaway so that we do not kill him or so that he does not kill us. The title fits the song. But I think they should have called it ‘Don't runaway love’ because they should have tried to explain to kids that it is not ok to runaway not that it is ok because kids should not run away from their family.





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bvrob said...
Jun. 24, 2016 at 4:17 am
What a great song. It breaks my heart every time I hear it.
 
bvrob said...
Jun. 24, 2016 at 4:17 am
What a great song. It breaks my heart every time I hear it.
 
Johnny said...
Nov. 28, 2011 at 10:40 pm
You spell Ludacris wrong. How white of you.
 
dorcha-aingeal said...
Apr. 17, 2011 at 10:41 am

replying to statement in the text

"The title fits the song. But I think they should have called it ‘Don't runaway love’ because they should have tried to explain to kids that it is not ok to runaway not that it is ok because kids should not run away from their family."

I don't agree with you. people don't run away jsut beacuse they want to. they run away bacuase they don't have a choice that will wokr for them, a choice that will protect them form what they are runin... (more »)

 
TerrenceF replied...
Apr. 17, 2011 at 3:19 pm
I understand where it is that you are coming from. To me it is still not ok to runaway. I believe that some things are not good but then again life is not that great either. Some people just need to stand up to a bunch of stuff and stop runningaway and be a grown up about it.
 
Mrs. S said...
Nov. 14, 2010 at 9:42 pm
Terrance, Wow what an awesome article. I remember how tough it was growing up. That is one of the reasons why I want to become an actual teacher and not just an aide. Life is ruff and running away is not the answer.
 
LadyGarnetoak said...
Nov. 4, 2010 at 8:49 pm
Very good article -- the thing is that parents forget what it was like for them.  i am not sure if it is adult denial or they truly forget how hard it is to grow up
 
TerrenceF replied...
Nov. 6, 2010 at 2:26 am
To tell you the truth Sue, but it is both for most adults. They are in denial about their child hood. Then again they are forgetting how hard it was for them so they won't have to remember the bad things in life. I thank you for reading, liking and commenting on my article.
 
Cousin said...
Aug. 31, 2010 at 7:55 pm
This article had a strong messege of how abuse, drugs, and negligence of our youth will affect the future of the nation. We ARE the next generation
 
TerrenceF replied...
Sept. 3, 2010 at 4:28 pm
thank u cousin that is a strong comment
 
alicianycole said...
Jul. 11, 2010 at 8:10 pm
it was reallyy good and made a good point
 
ariele97 said...
Jul. 11, 2010 at 1:15 pm
that is a very good article! its so true about the fighting.
 
Jmaya said...
Jul. 8, 2010 at 3:48 pm
Well i really enjoyed readying this. Made me think bout my actions towards everything. Its great. 10/10
 
TerrenceF replied...
Jul. 8, 2010 at 3:50 pm
Thank you jessica. I really am glad you said your peace.
 
happy go lucky replied...
Jul. 11, 2010 at 12:04 am

Terrence

You wrote a very good article. I agree with you more and more singers should sing to the audience they attract and sing songs that can be a positive influence to those listen. Music is something that everybody can relate to and that can help get us though some pretty tough times. Keep up the great writing and please let me know what else you write because I would love to read it. Thanks Kelly

 
suggapoo13 said...
Jul. 8, 2010 at 2:26 pm
hey man this is soo true ik how it feels especially the girls gettan beat n raped its all juss wrong n dumb i kno iv been thrue it twice
 
suggapoo13 said...
Jul. 8, 2010 at 2:21 pm
damn this is awsome n i think its great ta have sum1 do this n understand i would do the same n yes its very much true all the girls n raps its awful ik iv been thru it twice
 
yomomma123 said...
Jul. 8, 2010 at 1:17 pm
The ending is so true like if i get in a fight with my stepdad i wanna like kill him when hes sleeping but i dont because first it would like kill my mom and i dont wanna do n e thing to hurt her and second i dont wanna spend my life in jail so yaa good story man.
 
VFurnas said...
Jul. 7, 2010 at 5:59 pm
It is so important that people understand that domestic violence is a tragedy that effects everyone.  Thank you for sharing.
 
TerrenceFarrar replied...
Jul. 7, 2010 at 6:04 pm
No problem. I have no problem with sharing things like this at all.
 
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