Why I Should Be Allowed To Have a Facebook Account

March 9, 2010
By Anonymous

Dear Parents,

I would like to sign up for a Facebook account. Facebook.com is a social networking website where I can connect with people I know, online and conveniently. It is completely safe for a mature, 13-year-old. Socialnetworking-weblog.com says, “Facebook has an enormous amount of privacy settings that you can use to keep safe.” You have told me many times that Facebook is not an appropriate website for me right now, but here I will prove you wrong. Many trusted websites and responsible parents have declared Facebook a safe site for teens that use it responsibly. As Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, “In skating over thin ice our safety is in our speed.” Facebook is only dangerous for those who use it without being safe, unlike me, since I have researched various tips on staying safe on Facebook. This is why I need you to give me permission to get a Facebook account.

I understand that you are concerned for my online safety, but there is nothing to be worried about! I have over 50 friends already signed up on Facebook that are under 15, and you have told me yourself that most of them have responsible parents who make wise decisions for their children. One of the features that makes Facebook so safe is that you can block your profile so not even your name will be seen in public. You’ll never have to even think about people finding your Facebook profile online. You can choose what to put up, like your location, etc., since there is very little information that is required. Your profile won’t even show up if people search for your name on Google. If you put something in your profile that you suddenly realize you don’t want everyone to see, with just a click of a button, you can remove it, and it will only be viewable to certain people you select. I won’t mind friending you on Facebook, so you can monitor everything I do. In addition to that, I’ll give you my password. Most teens wouldn’t like having their parents rule over them so much, but it doesn’t matter to me because I’m not planning on doing anything secretive on Facebook. I don’t see how Facebook can be any less secure than email.

There are many uses for Facebook. One, it keeps you happy and makes you feel overall more positive. Glamour.com says, “Facebook is fun, relaxing, and maybe even good for your health! It can zap your stress, it makes you feel like you aren’t the only one, it makes you laugh, and its good clean fun.” Facebook is a place to meet up with friends you don’t keep in touch with. During school, I can only hang out with so many people at one time, since not all of my friends get along well. With Facebook, I can learn new things about people who I wasn’t good friends with before, and have better and closer friendships with them. I have heard adults say many times that spending too much time online causes less face-to-face social contact. However, surveys reported at a conference in 2006 indicate that “Facebook users mostly use it to maintain relationships with people they meet offline.” (Newscientist.com). I used to wonder how a lot of my friends knew so much about each other when they don’t seem to talk very much at school. The answer was Facebook.

Facebook can also be used for more important things, such as homework or an emergency. For example, say I needed to get help on a homework problem. It would take a very long time to call 10 people about homework, and some people wouldn’t pick up their phones. After all the calling, only one or two people would know the answer. A way to solve this problem is to post the question on Facebook, a website you know everyone will look at. Also, if there was a homework question that I understood but it stumped others, I could post it on Facebook to help people out. You might say, “Well, why don’t you just email your friends?” The thing is, not many people check their emails at all, and even those who do only check once a day. By the time someone read the email about the homework question, it would probably be too late. For something urgent, Facebook is the best option because you can get information and questions out quickly.

Facebook is one of those things that lasts as long as you want, since you can close your account whenever you feel like it. It will never give you computer viruses, as do websites such as www.myspace.com. You may have heard of peoples’ accounts and personal information getting hacked into. Most of these problems stem from the email address itself, where someone got into your email and found a Facebook email. One of the most popular hacks is a fake Facebook login page. If you are smart, you know how to avoid these problems. Now, I know that there may be other people who don’t use Facebook very responsibly, and these people may be some of my friends. Therefore, I will do one of two things: I will either talk to them in person before friending them to make sure that they won’t do anything with my pictures, and if they don’t, then I won’t be friends with them on Facebook. You might say, “What if you trust her now, but she uses your pictures inappropriately later, when she’s an adult?” A solution is to put a minimum amount of photos online. This risk comes with many things, such as emailing pictures, being in a yearbook, etc., and Facebook is really no different.

Facebook is a necessity for me, as it is for the rest of the world who uses it. It has innumerable privacy settings, and the account-holder can be even safer by using the picture-posting feature responsibly, and not putting too much personal information out there. When one has a Facebook account, they have to remember to not put anything online that they wouldn’t feel comfortable announcing to the world. You may say that Facebook is not safe for everyone, with which I agree. But for a responsible girl like me, I say that I can handle it. For these reasons, I am requesting you to allow me to create my own Facebook account.

The author's comments:
This was an assignment for a persuasive essay. This topic really matters to me because I fully believe that I am responsible enough for Facebook, and that I should be allowed to have one.

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This article has 25 comments.

lamontnumba5 said...
on Sep. 17 2014 at 12:13 pm
this is a great articale

Star said...
on Jan. 23 2013 at 1:14 pm
I see where u coming from because I got a Facebook page.and it is cool because u talk to some of your friends who might be out of town or move to a different state.so it is good to have a Facebook page.

AsianAl SILVER said...
on Jun. 13 2012 at 3:17 pm
AsianAl SILVER, Sacramento, California
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Favorite Quote:
You are who you are, and that makes you original. Keep being yourself and never change. And even if you do, then I'm sure that the new you is better than the first.

I agree to what "Life is Awesome" is saying, Facebook is good only for responsible people.

ss11 said...
on Jan. 8 2012 at 6:52 pm

jessielynn said...
on Nov. 10 2011 at 11:06 am
Facebook is a wonderful thing, and yes i agree some kids go home and get on it, but 

on Nov. 7 2011 at 3:07 pm
i think facebook is good for only responsible people but it gets old after a while so i barley get on mine unless i am super bored but kids sped way to much time on it and they do not get the amount of exercise they need....... 

PeteStink456 said...
on Nov. 7 2011 at 2:59 pm
My name is Stanky Pete! :) 

Claymonster said...
on Aug. 8 2011 at 2:16 pm
Claymonster, Champaign/ Urbana, Illinois
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I think facebook is kind of dumb. Everyone puts such stupid mindless stuff on there, and most teenagers spend way too much time on it. I know a lot of the kids at my school do...

on Jun. 13 2011 at 3:59 pm
same with me~ they just dont give a crap about the facts even though they are right

on Apr. 22 2011 at 7:58 pm
kfrog575 BRONZE, Santa Clara, California
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Were the viruses directly from facebook? or from applications or "like" websites.. cuz I know those might have them. To be safe, you just have to be smart with what you click on.

on Apr. 22 2011 at 3:54 pm
ShontelleSymone GOLD, New Castle, Pennsylvania
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Favorite Quote:
"Are you chasing your dreams? Or are your dreams chasing you?" - Michelle Phan

I hope this article will help you out. If I showed this to my parents they wouldn't care about the hard cold facts about the website. No matter how many professionals, businesses, or scientists with degrees of higher education say. For some reason they still say its not safe. I'm just a poet so I suppose I have no say in what I use to interact with the people I no longer go to school with.

Eli Atkinson said...
on Apr. 22 2011 at 1:37 pm
I thank facebook is amazeing chating place no ufence of anything but tweeting SUCKS! and every one in the world knows what you write facebook its privet

Eli Atkinson said...
on Apr. 22 2011 at 1:31 pm
im geting one this summer

Eli Atkinson said...
on Apr. 22 2011 at 1:29 pm
Thanks i now know if im ok or not for facebook

on Apr. 22 2011 at 11:56 am
WritingAngel20 BRONZE, Ardmore, Alabama
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Favorite Quote:
"In order to suceed, your desire for success must be greater than your fear of failure" -Bill Cosby

okay you do know facebook has viruses you can get from it, my friend and I had to do a presentation on viruses for computer class, just thought you should know.

on Mar. 9 2011 at 12:21 pm
IluvJesus BRONZE, Stone Mountain, Georgia
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NICE JOB!!! I should so totally use this for my parents they won't let me have until maybe I'm fifteen, and I can't wait four more months. I'm so tired of life going on without me. Anyway very nice arguement.

lexi239 BRONZE said...
on Nov. 19 2010 at 7:40 pm
lexi239 BRONZE, Brooklyn, New York
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yea i totally agree! my parents just let me have one!!!! good luck with convincing yours!

on Oct. 6 2010 at 5:48 pm
kfrog575 BRONZE, Santa Clara, California
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LF28 said...
on Oct. 6 2010 at 4:53 pm
That was a good argument, but a few of the quotes weren't really correct. Such as the one about Facebook being relaxing. It can actually cause a lot of stress, and I've seen this happen to many of my friends.

on Oct. 6 2010 at 12:16 am
JRsingersongwriter GOLD, HB, California
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Favorite Quote:
"It's one thing to put yourself in someone's shoes. It's another to walk around in them." -Me!

this was really well written i loved it!!!! im impressed!!!! let us know if u got the facebook account it's really persuasive :)

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