Most girls think it's the guys fault if the relationship doesn't work out. Truth is it's your fault to! I have blamed guys many times before, but I finally looked in the mirror and figured out after my ex and I got in to a big fight about us breaking up. If finally looked in the mirror and apologized to him, because I said some harsh things and over reacted a little bit. The guy may say things he regrets later on, but you say things you regret to! Ladies blame the guy if you want to, but you'll never truly know whose fault it was if you don't take part of the blame!