What girls look for in guys.

November 12, 2009
By fortheloveofwriting GOLD, A Place, Oklahoma
fortheloveofwriting GOLD, A Place, Oklahoma
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Favorite Quote:
"Art washes from the soul the dust of everyday life."
~Pablo Picasso


Love is patient, love is kind; it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
1 Corinthians 13:4
A man's ways are his own, but the LORD weighs the heart.


I don't know about you, girls, but in a guy, I look for someone sweet and caring; someone who'd go to the end of the universe and back for you. Someone who'd defend you and help you and hold you when you need them to.
I want someone who will always think about someone else and not themselves, but not to an extent where they forget themselves and don't take care of themselves.
And, someone who's honest.


The author's comments:
My friend is nice to his gf, and I wish I had someone that nice.

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Therese GOLD said...
on May. 11 2012 at 10:15 am
Therese GOLD, Thayer, Missouri
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Favorite Quote:
"I cry a tear in the ocean. The day you find it will be the day i stop missing you."

I like this, but i think you should have gone on and told why you look for those things.

on Jul. 30 2011 at 12:22 pm
JoPepper PLATINUM, Annandale, Virginia
35 articles 0 photos 782 comments

Favorite Quote:
"Freedom is the ability to not care what the other person thinks."

"Not all those who wander are lost" --JRR Tolkien

"When you are listening to music it is better to cover your eyes than your ears." --Jose' Bergamin

Hmmmmm.....good to know!!!!!!! :)

massacre said...
on May. 25 2011 at 9:31 pm
massacre, Lakewood, Washington
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Favorite Quote:
"Hate is a word for somebody you love but no longer believe in."

I know, right?? Best 80s movie, by far. Possibly the best movie ever. :P

OneHotMeS4L said...
on May. 25 2011 at 8:48 am
OneHotMeS4L, Cinci, Ohio
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I love that movie!!! (:

Archy said...
on May. 3 2011 at 5:19 pm
Archy, Honolulu, Hawaii
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Favorite Quote:
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone, it's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone"
~Robin Williams

We look for the same in girls. We dont always get that in return. Most girls go out with us cause we are hot.

massacre said...
on Apr. 11 2011 at 7:29 pm
massacre, Lakewood, Washington
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Favorite Quote:
"Hate is a word for somebody you love but no longer believe in."

Or, ya know, they make assumptions about you based on stupid things, like the way you dress or how you look. It happens. I mean, just watch The Breakfast Club... :)

massacre said...
on Apr. 11 2011 at 7:27 pm
massacre, Lakewood, Washington
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Favorite Quote:
"Hate is a word for somebody you love but no longer believe in."

Although awfully poetic, I agree. I think that, above all, I just want someone to hold my hand.

Archy said...
on Apr. 11 2011 at 4:39 pm
Archy, Honolulu, Hawaii
0 articles 0 photos 41 comments

Favorite Quote:
"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone, it's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone"
~Robin Williams

Most guys look for the same things in girls. But most of the time while girls look for something like that in us guys that dont show it in return. 

on Mar. 20 2011 at 6:38 am
Daniellee16 SILVER, Woodbridge, Virginia
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Couldn't agree more!

Alia_Tan GOLD said...
on Jan. 13 2011 at 8:37 pm
Alia_Tan GOLD, Elk Grove, California
15 articles 0 photos 69 comments

Favorite Quote:
"I gotta right to sing the blues/
gotta right to moan and sigh/
I gotta right to sit and cry" From "I gotta right to sing the blues" By Louis Armstrong

gud 4 you!! :D

Alia_Tan GOLD said...
on Jan. 13 2011 at 8:36 pm
Alia_Tan GOLD, Elk Grove, California
15 articles 0 photos 69 comments

Favorite Quote:
"I gotta right to sing the blues/
gotta right to moan and sigh/
I gotta right to sit and cry" From "I gotta right to sing the blues" By Louis Armstrong

AGREED! :D :D :D Hope my guy will luv me 4eva <3 lol :)

on Dec. 22 2010 at 7:29 pm
LovableD BRONZE, Killeen, Texas
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Favorite Quote:
Are you living or are you exsisting

You are so right. Never just throw off everything and focus on just that person you still need to be cautious

on Nov. 8 2010 at 5:24 pm
Gracious PLATINUM, Go Away, Kansas
22 articles 0 photos 66 comments

Favorite Quote:
"life sucks and then you die, yeah, i should be so lucky"



-Jacob, Twilight

I’m still that girl who falls when she runs, Getting back up, because falling is fun.

girls are the most comlicated things in universe. It'd be easier to break through the C.I.A.'s firewall than decode one of us. Juse keep being nice, it'll be worth it in the end

on Nov. 8 2010 at 11:55 am
Still_Waters26 SILVER, Ladysmith, Wisconsin
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Favorite Quote:
"We few, we happy few/we band of brothers/For he to-day that sheds his blood with me/Shall be my brother"
-Shakespeare, "Henry V"

Since I'm a girl, I know how they work.  Considering how these girls are treating you, you can make two assumptions.  1: they're jerks, or 2: they're testing you to see how far you'll go before you stop being nice--if this is the case, rise to the challenge and still stay nice, because sooner or later they'll get the message.  I really wish there were more guys like you in my school; most of them either think they're the king of the whole school, or just want you for your body...how rude.  Don't give up--like the article said, girls want a guy who's nice and trustworthy.

TrinityCreed said...
on Nov. 8 2010 at 10:05 am
Okay, but I'm a guy; please tell me why girls at my school are so stuck up even when I'm nice. I act nice and polite (treat them in a respectful way) to them but, they don't treat me the same. Please tell me why that is happening.

on Oct. 17 2010 at 12:10 am
fob-fan5 SILVER, Brockon, Ma, Massachusetts
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**raises hand** me too

tuasony said...
on Sep. 25 2010 at 7:49 pm
im a guy and I have to agree with you. But a fair warning to you all! All guys will not ALWAYS put you first, its just our nature. I think its is you girls nature also. So dont put him first in your life, because if he goes, so does your reason to be happy.  You should put your full love in someone who loves you and know for sure that he wont change.

GiSELA SILVER said...
on Apr. 24 2010 at 12:55 pm
GiSELA SILVER, Escondido, California
7 articles 0 photos 53 comments

Favorite Quote:
Life is about doing things people said you couldn't do.

100% with you !(:

on Apr. 2 2010 at 9:29 am
SpiceyRedPepper GOLD, League City, Texas
11 articles 0 photos 34 comments

Favorite Quote:
Im not clumsy im just allergic to gravity!!!!

ditto! you're so right!

on Mar. 11 2010 at 6:24 pm
magic-esi PLATINUM, Hyde Park, New York
27 articles 0 photos 231 comments

Favorite Quote:
"The mark of the immature man is that he wants to die nobly for a cause, while the mark of the mature man is that he wants to live humbly for one."
"Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times, if only one remembers to turn on the light."

Though that is all true, and this is very well written and makes a good point, I only have one requirement for a guy. To be the person who I love.




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