People rush into love without being sure if it is what they want. Also relationships have their ups and downs and if they truly love each other they can get through these but many people give up when they hit one of these bumps, sometimes it's not always best to give up. When a relationship ends it can be very depressing but searching for pity from others can only make things worse and you just have to be strong and move on. Not hide the pain but try to look at it differently and lessen the pain. That is my view on love/relationships.