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Why are boys so confusing?

Why do boys always go for the pretty girls? They have to have the blonde hair and blue eyes! But what about the girls with dark hair and green eyes? Aren't they pretty too? Boys always go for the pretty girls, they want to look popular with those girls and be considered cool cause they go out with the "cute" girls! What's so cute about a ton of blonde cheerleaders thinking they're better then everyone else? In all the movies the blonde cheerleader has the guy at the beginning but then, in the end, the brunette get's him. Why can't it be like that in reality? Boys are so confusing. One moment they are together with the geeky girl, the next moment they are dancing at prom with a cheerleader. Why can't the girls that make sense and are beautiful in there own way be loved. Why are boys so cute, yet so hard.

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StrictlyWorse said...
Apr. 18, 2011 at 9:00 pm
As a guy, I can say that I base no real importance on physical appearance so much as intellect, a sense of humor and the ability to care but I see what you mean. On behalf of my gender, I apologize
daish411 replied...
Apr. 19, 2011 at 1:34 pm
yeah u should apoligize and we except
savagebeast02 replied...
Apr. 19, 2011 at 6:04 pm
oh by the way...ima guy...but if you think about it, girls always want to guys with the 6 pack, and cute this and cute that...but they always go for the hot guys that are complete a**es.
StrictlyWorse replied...
Apr. 20, 2011 at 1:30 am
I concour with this gentleman^
MKimmi replied...
May 2, 2011 at 6:33 pm
well, at least there are soem guys that doesn't really look at looks only, thats nice, im well rested :P
Singers_Love replied...
Jul. 7, 2011 at 10:32 am
Not all girls like just the guys with the hott abs and crap. Sometimes with girls like me, they go for the ones that most others dont like... And when guys see your face first, they dont bother to get 2 kno ur personality. But when u meet them and they dont kno what u look like, and they get to kno the real you, they seem to like u when they se your face:) just my point of view from my expierences:)
angelface0:) replied...
Jul. 12, 2011 at 11:51 am
that's not true. personality is far more important then 6 pack. i'm not going to like a dbag. i like sweet smart funny boy. if they are cute that's just a plus. and i know this one is the enemy. but i like boys who listen. and i dont talk about stupid crap. i just want someone to get me. and make me feel good. and everyone tells me im pretty and cute and gorgeous. and that does "fill my bucket" i like when people say im nice or smart. so get to know me. before you judge me. kay?
angelface0:) replied...
Jul. 12, 2011 at 11:54 am
thats not true. idc about that stuff. as long as your nice smart not a druggie and you understand me and make me feel special, i'd fall for you easy. so dont judge ppl :) or a whole gender
angelface0:) replied...
Jul. 12, 2011 at 11:59 am
oops sorry wrong comment!! haha. and you sound like a catch:) SORRY!! lol. bye:)
ExpRESsY0uRselF said...
Apr. 18, 2011 at 6:26 pm
I soooooo agree with you. Why do boys always go for the elite group of thick, makeup slathered, popular, Barbie replica girls? Ugh, it gets me mad how boys are so stupid and never see the girl inside, only the short skirts and tight tops. 8( But on a lighter note, please check out my poems, The Girl Inside, Remembering Spring, and You Are The Lyrics In Me. And don't forget to comment! 8) Thanks!
ashley1012 said...
Apr. 18, 2011 at 2:47 pm
becuase some boys dont care what you think about them but like me i have bben used so many times it anit funny so i just gave up on all the gus does anyone have adive for me
sunriseusnset said...
Apr. 18, 2011 at 11:30 am
Exactly! Sometimes boys love with their  eyes, not their heart. It may take an experience to make them realize what truly makes them happy. They may not realize they are making us feel this way, but I guess we better let them know...right?
Nahara V. replied...
Apr. 18, 2011 at 4:31 pm
i could totally agree  with you cant argue
ExpRESsY0uRselF replied...
Apr. 18, 2011 at 6:23 pm
I love that! That is so right, eyes, not the heart! Can I use that quote?
sunriseusnset replied...
Apr. 18, 2011 at 8:18 pm
yeah, no problem.
Barbie18 said...
Apr. 18, 2011 at 10:09 am
beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
DrSuessandUnicorns said...
Apr. 17, 2011 at 8:24 pm

1.I'm not sure when the scientific study of hair color relating to personality came out, but I would like to see the article that explains that relationship. I have blonde hair...but I think I'm a pretty nice girl. Hair color can change, and even eyes color can now too, but insides don't.

2.Also, it seems you have forgotten about a subgroup of guys--the nice ones who love girls for their inner beauty.

3.The part you seem to have avoided is that this is an article about the boys ... (more »)

angelface0:) replied...
Jul. 12, 2011 at 12:03 pm
AMEN!!! and love the screen name btw :)
Archangel1410 said...
Apr. 17, 2011 at 3:25 pm
With all due respect, of course, but you can switch this article around and make it "why are girls so confusing" and just change the words from guy to girl because some girls are the exact same way. Guys arent the only ones either. 
MKimmi replied...
May 2, 2011 at 6:42 pm
LOL I guess that would be nice to read, thought I would sympathetic with the girls side...seeing I'm a girl and not very likely to get a guy
whateverjulietThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. said...
Apr. 14, 2011 at 9:21 pm
i feel the same way!
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