I don't like Lady Gaga.

April 2, 2010
Blasphemy alert. I’m a sixteen year old American girl and I don’t like Lady Gaga. And no, it’s not because I don’t like her music, her costumes, or her performances. I just don’t like being manipulated.

Actually, I lied. It’s partly her music, costumes, and performances. But not so much because they’re hideous or outrageous or tiresome. But looking back at those pictures of her as a “normal” girl and seeing what and who she is now, it’s almost insulting. The fact that this girl had to change into something almost non-human to finally get noticed is unsettling, at best. She’s instead this cold, faceless force. No one noticed her when she was trying to “make it”. But then the fame machine (monster, she calls it?) seemed to eat her up and spit out an entirely new person, repackaged and revamped to “shock” us all.

And in the end, it really isn’t even that shocking. It’s almost a little pathetic (and you’ll see what I mean by insulting) when it seems that the state of the nation’s youth has degenerated so much that we need a woman in a mask and sparkling breasts to tell us that we’re all okay. Okay to be different, okay to be loved, the whole package. Because then we really aren’t, are we?

She's been quoted as saying, “I would rather die than have my fans not see me in a pair of high heels. I'd never give up my wigs and hats for anything.” I'm afraid that this mentality about possessions and image, to her millions of female fans, is dangerous. She speaks almost as if these material things are as vital to life as water is. This is the same woman who says that “I'm always saying something about art and music and fame. That's why you don't ever catch me in sweatpants.” She claims that her style and her persona is for art, and yet, it begs the question if she ever does anything for herself. She makes herself a martyr for the love of her fans. And if she is as passionate as she says she is about new frontiers in art, why are the vast majority of her lyrics about sex and money?

I'm not asking her to be anything different, not exactly. Give me a David Bowie reincarnate, an rebel in the music industry. But give me a little more complexity, a little more beauty, a little more thought than just what's on the outside. Give me another facet than just the freaky hair and makeup and clothing, because if that’s all there is, her opinion about simply being yourself is lost somewhere in the jumble of cosmetics and oversized sunglasses. But most of all, give me a break.

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shadow song said...
Dec. 19, 2011 at 5:55 pm
i think you put it perfectly.Music is meant to be beautiful,right?cultural,not insane.not menial.inspirational.
AmyLee-FTW replied...
Dec. 20, 2011 at 9:36 pm
Exactly, if I tell you what you can and can't do and I can't title what you do as "this" or "that".
Katsview This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. replied...
Feb. 2, 2012 at 6:04 pm
Right-- like how Picasso changed the art industry and practically invented cubism and whatnot.
ekaterinahansing said...
Dec. 18, 2011 at 4:51 pm
Air high five! You go kid! You write with creditable passion. I'm with you all the way!!
Amekage said...
Dec. 16, 2011 at 4:23 am
This was article was very well written. I'm glad you decided to post this, not neccessarily because I agree with it (which I do), but because it shows that you have some guts. From all the previous comments, it looks like you've stepped on toes, but isn't that what this style of writing is about? Getting your point out there, whether people agree with you or not is the soul of this "genre". Kudos on the amazing article.
Tesha17 said...
Dec. 15, 2011 at 8:30 pm
wow. you really caught everything didn't you? i really like the artical, and though i like her songs i agree she might be a little desprate for attention. who walks around in a dress of meat? that's gross!
chloe_garrett replied...
Feb. 2, 2012 at 8:53 am
laura28772 said...
Dec. 15, 2011 at 8:16 pm
This is really interesting, although i dont agree with some points it is interesting to see other's point of view and how they see things. Well done for speaking your mind! :)
shoxie95 This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Dec. 15, 2011 at 7:31 pm
Great job! I honestly thought I was the only teenage girl that felt this way! You put everything into words in a way I never could! Again, great job!
Neytiri said...
Dec. 15, 2011 at 3:02 pm
Oh my God. I thought I was the only person (female) who had this opinion on this particular woman. I totally agree with you girl! I think she is far too over the top and is arrogant , hypocritical and extremely provocative. Very good article and I am totally agreeing with you. Well done! x
nik123 said...
Nov. 28, 2011 at 8:09 pm
i totally disagree with i am sorry but i do she does it is because she had a tough life when she was little and no matter how she dresses she always has fans.
Tcoolgirl said...
Nov. 28, 2011 at 3:20 pm
I really like this and agree with you. :) your article is really well written
sparkles64 said...
Nov. 28, 2011 at 2:35 pm
i love it i dont like lady either
treesplease22 said...
Nov. 14, 2011 at 3:14 pm
i love the article and im a fan of lady gaga. i think what the author says is correct and very true. but lady gaga's lyrics are not only about sex and money. yes she does have a song called "Money honey" but who doesn't want some more cash every now and then? i do believe that our civilization all in itself is surrounding money and sex. but gaga also writes about love and breakups. she expresses that being different is okay and should be accepted. 
(like you said) im not saying you hav... (more »)
mbreezy replied...
Nov. 28, 2011 at 8:16 am
Wowo I do not like her either she is an illumnati(on google look up lady gaga illuminate).She is teaching children to be crazy (no offense) hobnockers.
mr who cares? replied...
Jan. 11, 2012 at 12:13 pm
she also sings about poker faces
moveslikejagger replied...
Feb. 2, 2012 at 4:34 pm
Lady Gaga may not be my favourite pop star, but she is a role model for both LGBTQ and straight people alike. That takes SKILLS!
ReadWriteBreathe said...
Nov. 6, 2011 at 6:47 pm
We never needed lady gaga to tell us its ok to be different but she did. And did it help? Yeah. So many teenagers can be themselves because they look at lady gaga and realize that she isn't afraid to be herself. Sure, she used to be an everyday person but everyone starts out "Normal". She just changed. She found herself. Other than that. Amazing article. Very well written.
ultimatekai said...
Nov. 6, 2011 at 12:15 am

I agree with this article in the sense that Lady Gaga does use shock value to gain fame. However, all the money she earns she puts right back into producing her concerts (no joke, she has stated that she barely keeps any of the money for herself). On top of that, she has used her fame and status to promote various charities and speak out for gay rights.

So I feel like even if she is abusing the shock value, she's at least putting more into the world than, say, Justin Bieber. When's the... (more »)

CleverScreenName said...
Oct. 21, 2011 at 7:38 pm
I don't believe this. What is the definition of normal anyways? To some it could just be your girl next door going to school everyday, to others it could be finally feeling great in their own skin, expressing themselves in whatever fashion they desire. I believe that's what Lady GaGa is doing. She may be critcized for going "over the top" or "inhuman" like, but I believe it's just our society's perception of her. I believe that in her own way, this is how she feels normal. I don't think she chan... (more »)
GINGERgirl423 replied...
Nov. 6, 2011 at 12:49 am
I'm pretty sure lady gaga just does all that to get noticed. The more "creative" her wardrobe, the more viewers. Hipsters are taking over society. Call me old fashioned, but songs and outfits like hers don't make much sense. I could right a lady gaga song right now, I need growling, random words, and a half nude music video. I'll be a hit. The beat to her music is catchy, but the price for fame these days shouldn't be your clothing.
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