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Colorblind: Racial Ignorance in America


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Though she knew she was breaking the law, Rosa Parks, a simple, elderly, hard working,
housemaid, one day decided she would not give up her seat on the bus for a white man. And with that small act of defiance, she became, unintentionally, a Civil Rights icon.
Parks never intended to be a popular and respected leader of this movement. She only wanted to be comfortable after a day of being on her feet. Parks was arrested, and with the media outrage that followed, America’s eyes began to open.
Sadly, that is a lie. America’s eyes have yet to open. They have steadfastly remained in darkness.

Being the youngest child of an interracial marriage, I am often asked if this relationship has affected me in any way. To be honest, I am rather offended by people who question me about this.




I am simply a teenage girl who chooses to ignore her parents' heritage, racial stigmatism, or any of the myopic, stereotypical prejudices one wishes to impose. That's their problem, not mine.
To be frank, you could not pay me enough to care what slave ship brought my fathers family from Ethiopia. Nor can I feel a pang of sorrow when relatives tell me of my ancestors' hardships when they immigrated to America. I know it sounds harsh. And yes, in a way, it bothers me. But, it is the truth.

I did realize that my father was the same color crayon in my crayon box, brown. But it hadn't occurred to me that he was African- American until the age of seven when a classmate asked, “Why doesn’t your daddy look like your mommy?” My initial reaction was to shake my head and argue that my father looked just like anyone else's father.
How could it could be possible that he was different. He coached my biddy ball team, sat through my two hour Christmas concerts, cooked when mom was away. At that age, some children have yet to learn the difference between doing and being.
That night, at dinner, I saw my parents differently. With my recent discovery, I slowly began to understand that I was biracial, and supposedly different, just like my dad.

As I grew older and went through Catholic school, teachers asked if I celebrated Kwanza. Some classmates called me cookie dough, and parents asked me about Black History Month.
No, I do not celebrate Kwanza, nor does my dad. In my opinion, Kwanza is a recently created black Christmas to build more of a barricade, to separate, not for reasons of heritage, or being different in a positive way.

I did, at one time, let people nickname me because of my skin color. My own mother even took the
liberty of calling me peanut butter. But now, since I have been questioning and thinking, being called peanut butter, Reese cup, and mocha bear, offends me. Or when people say that I am mixed, I feel like yelling. I am not a beverage, so how can I be mixed?

I believe Black History Month, along with other months dedicated to a specific group, should be prohibited. There is no need to focus on a particular group for an entire month. Instead, parents, teachers, and media should discuss historical interests throughout the year.
Historian, Carter G. Woodson’s original Black Awareness Week ,was intended to help others envision a better future through an identity of their past. But now, his vision has become a pop culture phenomenon, which corporate America has been quick to exploit. During the last Super Bowl, for example, several corporate commercials specifically mentioned Black History Month, and how much they honored it.
Another injustice of our nation is affirmative action. On September 24, 1965, the executive order number 11246 required federal contractors, “Take affirmative action to ensure that applicants are employed, and that employees are treated during employment, without regard to their race, color, religion, sex, or
national origin.” With affirmative action, employers are being asked to hire less qualified workers and in some instances for more money. Title II of the Act prohibited discrimination in privately owned businesses and facilities opened to the public. In Title VI of the Act, it prohibited discrimination in federally funded programs. Title VII prohibited discrimination by both private and public employers. During the Civil Rights Era, affirmative action was created to abolish racial imbalances in hiring policies. Affirmative action was later extended to include college admissions and governmental contracts.

Today, affirmative action is a controversial matter facing our equal rights status of individual rights. As I have just recently explained, the idea and hope that affirmative action implemented was that America would truly become equal. So far, this hope and dream of equality has lasted thirty years and has yet to resolve any of our current problems concerning equal rights-it has made things worse. This act was created with intention of using reverse discrimination to resolve discrimination. With this, minority groups are being chosen over qualifications of other workers.

Affirmative action is also influential in the educational system. In some college admissions, minority students who may have never been accepted into a decent college, are now getting accepted. With this, the American people believe that this will end all racism on school campuses, creating diversity among students. The United States constitution states that all Americans are created equal. Therefore, I believe if we are created equal, shouldn’t we all have the same opportunity as everyone else?

Finally, Black Entertainment Television, commonly known as BET, creates a stereotypical outlook on the African American culture. Founded by Robert L. Johnson in 1980, the network showed movies, television series, and music to target an African American audience. BET justifies racism by pressing personal and broad generalizations about African Americans, affecting how many young viewers see the African American culture. Many generalizations include being womanizers, promiscuous, nuisances to society, and opposing integration.

This network contributes to the stereotypical diet of African Americans: fried chicken, cherry Kool-Aid, and soul food. BET also neglects the fact that most African Americans do not find people of Caucasian heritage as the bad guys or the nerds. Also, BET would like to portray the ‘injustices’ of being an American citizen who happens to be of African descent. For example, if one were to create a new television franchise called White Entertainment Television, or more commonly known as WET, people would assume it would be promoting white supremacy. BET exploits and manipulates the depiction of an African American’s daily life, which is why the network should be renamed or taken out of your basic cable lineup.

Why do Americans feel that they have conquered racism and prejudice? Granted, from that spark that Rosa Parks lit, to the election of Barrack Obama, is one giant leap for mankind. However, we are not even in spitting distance of erasing racial bigotry.

I notice it among my peers when they say, “I would never date a black guy.” Or, “They only like your dad because he’s the only black man they know.” Even, “I’m going through a black guy phase. I have to date one.”

When people mention things like these, intuition tells me it starts in the home. Where else would one learn behavior and comments of that nature? Social prejudice is not innate. It has to be predisposed. If one truly wishes to stop the idea of seeing race, it must start within themselves.



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GABSALOTT96 said...
Oct. 13, 2011 at 6:21 pm:
Right now, I'm getting more generalizations from this than anything. People have definitely wronged you and offended you before, and I'm not excusing that. But I think you've then placed these people in a group of those who just recognize and speak on the differences in culture. There's a lot of gems in everything, and from being around "Shaniqua's" and "Tyrone's" I can say that there's a difference between them and "Doug". Just because someone has the courage to have a question about the differ... (more »)
 
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Pisforprofessor said...
Jul. 21, 2011 at 5:01 pm:
And please excuse the double writing at the end of my comment.  I don't know how nor why it appears that way.   Again, continue with your writing!
 
silence21 replied...
Jul. 21, 2011 at 8:39 pm :
Thank you very much for insight, and I will check my facts again. I believe this was written out of anger towards a teacher and ignorant friends at my school. Again, thank you.
 
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Pisforprofessor said...
Jul. 21, 2011 at 4:58 pm:

Young lady, continue with developing your writing by supporting your thesis with additional Concent Detail rather than commentary.   Concentrate on researching your thesis topic to the fullest in the areas of cultural and social injustices, American History outside of your Unified School Districts book company of choice,  and Civil Cases pro or con Affrimative Action so that your writings show substance to your opinion and/or stance. 

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RubioThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. said...
Jun. 15, 2011 at 11:35 pm:

Hi, 

I was very confused about the messages you put out in your piece. Some were black pride and some were very negative toward the black community. And to be honest boo, it hurts me so deep inside, when black people are not proud of their race.I'm reading the comments and I see you bringing up Polish people. Honey, native polish people look white. And let me put this in, being black isn't only about the color but the experience and the understanding of what it means to be black. ... (more »)

 
silence21 replied...
Aug. 8, 2011 at 5:15 pm :

I myself do not have much, and I know people who are less fortunate, and yes, it is hard for people out there, I understand that. But,  the people I know have had horrible childhoods, and brought themselves out of the situation on their own.

Thank you for your comment, it is much appreciated.

 
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andrewh93 said...
May 1, 2011 at 12:34 am:

I agree with almost every point you've made here, and I think you're right. It's not often I see an article so convincing about reverse discrimination, but even rarer do I see one that seems like it's got some good, solid facts behind it.

I think, however, that many of the discrimination problems in today's society come from the media and "Political Correctness", and I do think that there are some people out there who take advantage of that to be downright racist to whites. (Racisim is... (more »)

 
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M.TizzleThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. said...
Apr. 28, 2011 at 11:14 am:
I can relate to it to im mixed black dad and a white mom but because im so dark they say that i cant be mixed that im mexican or indian but i always hace to explain my ethnicity to people and i think that it doesnt really matter becasue im still a human being and i dont have to prove anything to anyone about my Race it just gets me so angry sometimes when people are just stupid and say stuff about someone because of their race and it just needs to stop.
 
silence21 replied...
May 1, 2011 at 11:11 am :
Thank you for commenting and its nice to know people can relate to this =)
 
Veronica replied...
Aug. 23, 2011 at 12:02 am :
I'm so glad that someone else is experiencing this, too. I'm Hafrican (white mom, deceased black dad) in a predominately white and Asian town. People are constanly asking me what ethnicity I am and accuse me of lying when I say I'm half black. Several people have assumed that I'm hispanic because of my "coloring." In fact, I'll never forget when my freshman Spanish teacher singled me out in class and said she was shocked that I had never been to Mexico. People who can tell that I'm half bla... (more »)
 
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shewrites22 said...
Apr. 12, 2011 at 9:49 pm:
While I thought you article was well-written and there were certainly good points (how you are percieved as "other because you're mixed, that black history month is exploited), I also have to echo some of what others have said. Honestly, this article makes it seem like you have some deep-rooted issues with the black race in general. You highlight only the negatives of black culture and seem to cite it as being the main cause of racial ignorance in whites. I agree that at this point, BET is ridic... (more »)
 
silence21 replied...
Apr. 14, 2011 at 8:06 pm :

Thanks for commenting =)

Black History Month is 28 Days

 
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morethanunusual said...
Apr. 1, 2011 at 10:11 pm:
i think people try so hard not to be racist that they become racist unintentionally. 
 
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PrettyGirlMia said...
Mar. 17, 2011 at 11:59 am:
i think you should take pride in being black, when people look at you they dont see you as mixed they see you being black,
 
silence21 replied...
Mar. 17, 2011 at 8:12 pm :
Thank you for your opinion, but I feel that advertising being black is very pointless. I'm also Polish, and Polish people have been through hardships too, but you don't see Polish people getting scholarships for just being Polish. Why should a minority group be picked over a better canidate?
 
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PrettyGirlMia said...
Mar. 17, 2011 at 11:56 am:
b/c im fully black (not mixed) , i guess i have a different persepective on our culture. its like you take the negitive aspects on being black and you put them in a group all together , i didnt like the part about black history month. As african americans we have come through alot of adversity and hardships in america , back in the day people used to say we were good for nothing and worthless and black history month is a time to show that they were wrong we are educated and have been big contrib... (more »)
 
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Dragonscribe said...
Jan. 15, 2011 at 10:35 am:
I agree with you! I'm a white child of white parents, but I can understand how you feel. And I have to say that while I was reading your article and advertising for "African dating" popped up on the screen. Huh.
 
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EmilytheAuthor This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Jan. 4, 2011 at 2:32 pm:

I'm also "mixed" (Hispanic Dad, "white" mom) and I get some of what you are saying. I, personally, want to celebrate both sides of the family by embracing their cultures, but that's my choice. When I had a Quince Anos (sweet 15) party, I would invite friends and they'd laugh at me. If I had a dollar for how many times someone said "You're not Mexican" or "You're white, why are you doing this?", I'd have a ton of money. I am a 2nd generation immigrant from Colombia on my dad's side. I love my ... (more »)

 
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Kay34066 said...
Jan. 2, 2011 at 1:53 pm:
I can relate to article in many ways but I do disagree about some things. In my school it is very white. I am a "mixed" student and I am very proud of that. Once I had a boy argue with me that I am not partly colored. He even had the nerve to tell me that my own mother was not black! I find that offensive, but that doesn't change me or my family. Your right there shouldn't be total months devoted to entire races, we should only learn our mistake in the past from not only teachers but communities... (more »)
 
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TreyAmazing said...
Dec. 17, 2010 at 8:34 am:
You have great articulation, and this was a well written article. However, i do believe you are taking it out of proportion. The way this article is written would lead one to believe you have an unconscious loathing for Black people, and you blame your father for making you that way. You never once speak about your caucasian half. BET is way for black to stay intouch with black culture. They do not portray white people any sort of way, just broadcast television programs and movies with a predomi... (more »)
 
silence21 replied...
Dec. 17, 2010 at 9:49 pm :

Thank you fo your views, however I believe that you feel like this because you are centered on protecting your ethnic background, seeing that your profile says your favorite hobby is Being Black. Do you like being black because of the cultural aspects or do you like being black because it just happens to be the race you were born into?

You said that I blame my father's heritage for things, and I can see how you would feel that way, but I feel that it is wrong to glorify people jus... (more »)

 
PurpleFeather replied...
Jan. 23, 2011 at 7:25 pm :

Trust me, no one is glorifying black people. We are the lowest race on the totem pole of minorities. The affirmative action plan helped matters a lot at the time, but didn't do away with the problem completely. And it certainly didn't cause people to glorify people of color.

And there is nothing wrong with racial pride. TreyAmazing likes being black because, as do many black teenagers, it is both because of the cultural aspects AND because it was the race he was born into. You can't do... (more »)

 
silence21 replied...
Jan. 23, 2011 at 8:51 pm :
Thank you for you comment. I don't really agree with you, but thank you.
 
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Anaise11This teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. said...
Nov. 28, 2010 at 2:44 pm:
No problem, it was a great article :)
 
silence21 replied...
Dec. 2, 2010 at 8:14 pm :
Again, thakn you =)
 
soc-mikal replied...
Dec. 9, 2010 at 1:19 pm :
would you mind telling me the date that you published this article? it would help me a great deal thanks!
 
silence21 replied...
Dec. 9, 2010 at 5:50 pm :
I'll try to find out. May I ask why
 
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crimescenefairy said...
Nov. 2, 2010 at 4:24 pm:

Hi! My dad and I had an argument about different races marrying. I'm white and I really wouldn't care if a guy was black, what does it matter if you're in love, right? And he was all like Well the kids of interracial couples are always picked on and blah blah blah...so I guess he was just saying that we have to plan our lives around other peoples bigotry? Ugh.

So anyways, I love your article, very well written

 
silence21 replied...
Nov. 27, 2010 at 12:41 pm :
Well, thank you for reading this, and I'm happy you like it. You'd think we would have grown out of that state of mind, but hey, he's just trying to do what he thinks is best for kid =)
 
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Corkyspaniel said...
Oct. 15, 2010 at 11:14 am:
This article is beautifully written. I have loved hearing your story. I am touched by it, because I encounter opposition because my boyfriend is Mexican. I love his heritage, but my entire family is against it. I wish I had pride in my Irish, German, and Cherokee heritage the way he has pride in his.
 
silence21 replied...
Oct. 15, 2010 at 9:21 pm :
Well, thank you and than you for listening to my story
 
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Allison said...
Sept. 22, 2010 at 4:35 pm:
Your article is certainly well-intentioned. I want to make one correction: Rosa Parks did not refuse to give up her seat for the reason you state. Ms. Parks was part of an activist group that made the decision with her to take this action. Although the myth makes her sound more sympathetic, I supposed, such a tactic is unnecessary. Ms. Parks was a brave woman who made a public statement using the political weight of the NAACP and anti-racism advocates. It is important that you and everyone who w... (more »)
 
Dragonscribe replied...
Jan. 15, 2011 at 10:37 am :
I've never, ever heard that about Rosa Parks before.
 
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CocoBelle said...
Sept. 2, 2010 at 2:57 pm:
I appreciate you to the highest degree for this.Many don't know how people still turn their noses up on us(african american descents)
 
silence21 replied...
Sept. 2, 2010 at 8:08 pm :
Thank you so much, that means a lot. =)
 
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Nick_XaoThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Jul. 27, 2010 at 9:09 pm:

I'll start off with the good: Your article is well-written, well thought out, and I very much respect your opinion because you sound intelligent and reasonable. I understand and sympathize with your frustration of BET, the stereo-types of celebrating one particular holiday, even if you don't. They are an unfortunate representation of your culture, and I completely understand what its like to feel pigeon-holed and frustrated with the mass stereotypes of your culture.

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silence21 replied...
Aug. 20, 2010 at 8:03 pm :

Thank you very much, and I see where you are coming from with many of your views. However, I choose to feel how I feel and I'm not trying to get rid of my culture but to get rid of the negative attention brought to it. I wish everyone could be equal and have a clean slate no matter what happened to them or their relatives and that they should be viewed as just people.

Again, thank you for your comment. I appreciate your feeback, it helps to improve my future writing.

 
Lilliterra replied...
Oct. 6, 2010 at 9:36 pm :

I'm a white person, and I'm just wondering- why are minorities always expected to observe some kind of cultural heritage, while others are not? I've never even thought about celebrating Irish or German heritage, and no one asks me if I do. And I know that the German side of my family has been in America much shorter than most black families.

The reason I say "black" not "African American", is because, they're not African, they're American! No one calls me, "European American". And no o... (more »)

 
Nick_XaoThis teenager is a 'regular' and has contributed a lot of work, comments and/or forum posts, and has received many votes and high ratings over a long period of time. This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. replied...
Oct. 6, 2010 at 10:56 pm :
They're not "expected to". In fact, many people just discard it, letting America become their main culture. But some of us like to honor their family's heritage, not in a "superior" sense, but just as a remembrance of who you are and where you came from.
 
silence21 replied...
Oct. 11, 2010 at 8:58 pm :

Nick

I can respect that

=)

 
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MaryJ said...
Jul. 18, 2010 at 9:31 pm:

Have you ever thought about starting your own organization? Could you possibly start changing the world one person at a time

I enjoyed this piece and hope to see more.

 
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daffe10 said...
Jun. 24, 2010 at 11:57 am:
I definately agree wiht this post. This is exactly what AMerica needs to hear! We can't all be treated the same and equal if we keep segregating one another! I f you actually want a difference, you have to start with yourself. We shouldn't even regard skin color. God made us all equally. Our skin color only comes from the amount of melanine in our pancreas to protect us from different amounts of sun exposure, not because we are more or less special. If we stop race-promoting confrences and othe... (more »)
 
silence21 replied...
Aug. 20, 2010 at 8:07 pm :
Thank you daffe. I see we have something in common =)
 
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Seabosking05 said...
Jun. 22, 2010 at 11:44 am:
the more we give power to race the more racist people will flourish so we need to have a human history month where everyone comes together no matter where you come from. By celebrating as a human race we can then expand and we will except animals and people from other planets so we can live in universal harmony instead of just living as towne countries and races. 
 
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The_End said...
May 17, 2010 at 7:39 pm:
I come from a small town, and there is like...zero black people there, except for my basketball coach. He's married to a white woman, but it doesn't bother me at all. Our whole team has watched out for their little girls like they were our sisters. But yeah, racism is idiotic, and i don't agree with holidays that target a specific racial or ethnic group either.
 
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VanillaDream93 This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
May 11, 2010 at 1:45 pm:
I love this article.  I really hate racist people.  We are all humans no matter what color our skin is.  My Advanced English class is reading a book called "Mississippi Trial, 1955" and I've had to put it down and stop reading it numerous times because racism and discrimination is really ignorant and upsets me.
 
silence21 replied...
Aug. 20, 2010 at 8:09 pm :

I thank you for your comment. I will definetly (sp?) be reading that book as soon as I can. It sounds like an interesting read =)

Thanks

 
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morgan_e said...
Apr. 29, 2010 at 7:22 am:
Oh wow. I completly agree with you . My parents are racists and I hate it. Most of my friends are not white like my mother would want them to be, so she disowned me because of it.
 
silence21 replied...
Apr. 29, 2010 at 5:22 pm :
Thank you, and I'm sorry that your family is that way. But I' happy you are open minded to the world around you :)
 
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iseeME26 said...
Apr. 15, 2010 at 3:36 pm:
i read the first line and i loved it already, good job ;)
 
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