What is the real reason for spreading gossip? It doesn’t actually bring joy to those who spread it–it certainly bring sadness to those who are the topic of it. I understand that gossiping is fun in small doses–as a matter of fact, it is common conversation at most sleepovers. However, gossiping is similar to eating too much candy: it tastes good while you take it all in, but in the end you are left feeling sick to your stomach. I propose this question: why not spread kindness? Rarely does one find themself speaking about the goodness in others. The next time you are gossiping, I suggest taking a step back, and add something positive to the conversation, rather than negative. Gossip ultimately brings woe, while kindness brings happiness.