Life is constantly changing I’m powerless & I accept that. Nothing is ever going to stop being unexpected it’s just something that going to forever keep reoccurring positive or negative. One second I can be happy next second someone could had died and me be depressed next second I could be given a job next second I loose my best friend but realize who my lover is see everything is constantly changing and there is nothing to do but let it happen. Realizing every second is a second of the past , nothing to do about it no way to change the past , you will realize what is important in life, and build towards your future that you do control.