I can't begin to understand someone's grief and sadness. You don't know what has happened to them or if it was something from their past.Everyone has unique memories with people and things. All a person can do is be kid and comforting. I strongly believe god has a plan for all of us and it isnt always fair. Life isn't fair in general, but you can only hope for a better tomorrow and deal with today. The world is a magnificent place so we need to enjoy it while we can. You cant mourn forever because it will rip you apart. The great ones wont always live forever. If i could go back i would have spent more time with my family memebers. It's amazing how time slips through your fingers. My new motto is " time is valuable, so dont waste it".