I don't understand why people say things like "she stole my man" or "he stole my wife." No one can be stolen, they have to be willing to leave their partner for another person. There has to be a deep issue within someone to make them stray away from their boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife. If somebody is truly satisfied, leaving isn't a thought or an option. Also, it makes no sense to feud with the person who your significant other cheated with; your problem isn't with the other woman or man, it's with the individual you are in a relationship with.