I can definitely relate to Cam Cunningham in the article "Hands." In the article it talks about how a person is in a relationship,and the partner is taking charge."I've got the flu." Those are very strong words.It's like saying your something that's hard to get rid of.I've been in relationships and I felt like I didn't have any control.I was very confused,and it was like I was kind of addicted to him being in my life.It's like he was a part of me. But at the end I finally realized it was all in my head.