Okay y'all guys should know we look on the inside. What you look like on the outside doesn't really matter to us, but you need to learn to slow down we have to get to know you before we do anything. We don't just jump into something. Like I've talked to a guy for a week and within that week he asked me for pictures (nudes) and I don't send them, he got mad. So slow your roll, then the number one thing to do is make your girl feel safe even though nothing might be going on show you love her, hold her. Don't be afraid to put your arms around her do it in public to show you really care and you'll put a smile on her face, you never know when she might be having a bad day. She needs you more than you think!