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Loving to hate.
She may be your ex-boyfriends current girlfriend, or your boyfriends ex-girlfriend.She may be your boss, or an over smart colleague.But in each of our life ‘she’ exists. SHE who makes you wish bad things would happen to her.
Your hate crush.
Ever wondered how she makes us think about her So much? Whether you want to or not you still land up talking about her! Its this really weird sort of obsession. Like you want to keep hearing about her. Women, more than men tend to form hate crushes. Why? Physiologically, Women have a deeper limbic system which makes them feel things more intensely. Okay, so we hate more people! A hate crush is always on your mind. You fantasize bad.
WHAT IT DOES TO YOU :

You cant help but read her facebook posts.

You pray for her downfall.

You plot to outshine her.

You tend to compare her with yourself and laugh at how you are way better.

You laugh at her weaknesses.

You laugh at her anyway!
What you should do to it :

Write her a sorry/clarification letter or e-mail and never send it.

Go the other way in your imagination and change all the movie planning in your head.

Make your views diplomatic in the social circle.

Stop stalking her on networking sites.

Don’t run into her too much. Out of sight is out of mind.


It sure is hard to get over, but it is possible. Just give up on all the evil grinning and soon you will be done with it. ?





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