You can never truly understand someone unless you are them, feel their hurt their pain and their anguish. But yet we are all so quick to judge others not knowing what is really going on. Their are those who throw themselves pitty parties because they simply want attention from others, but than their are those who bottle up their feelings nad wear a mask, not showing their true emotions. many people are like this and others think they have an amazing life without knowing what really goes on behind the mask. they dont know the pain they feel, and most do not care to dig deeper and find the person beneath the mask. People really need to understand that sometimes when we are throwing oursleves pitty parties they are those who ac=tually need a friend and they have it more worse than you could ever imagine, and everyone should try and dig deeper than that mask and find the true person underneath.