December 31, 2013
By dwoobs SILVER, Overland Park, Kansas
dwoobs SILVER, Overland Park, Kansas
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Favorite Quote:
"There is nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and bleed." Ernest Hemingway

The comical thing about having bonfire parties this summer is the irony of all of us playing with fire. Every party, there were more than enough drinks and bad decisions to go around, and even more lies. From fake friends to fighting lovers, conflict was the lifeblood of the summer. I, a loner girl who had suddenly become friends with the "right people", joined this chaotic environment with hopeless abandon and way too much naïveté.

Which came back to bite me. Hard. I have this way of being a perfect chameleon and mirror of whatever group of friends I am with. In this one, I became the gossipy, bitchy queen bee that part of me had always wanted to be; and that the other part of me despised. These two different parts agreed on one thing: my friends would have my back no matter what.
As most stories about friends and bad decisions go, they did not.

Over the summer, we isolated people, were just plain awful over Twitter, and we were so very fake to everybody, even to each other. When school started again, all of the bad karma we all had racked up finally caught up to us. Friendships were thrown away, rumors exploded, and the loner girl became known as the untrustworthy pathological liar. A far fall, especially for someone who usually prided herself on being almost too honest.

I still deal with the repercussions of the girl I was this summer to this day. I still have to look in the mirror and remember that some people will never trust me again, partly due to awful, untrue rumors and partly due to my ugly transformation this summer. It is little comfort that the people still close to me know I'm not that girl. Because, at the end of the day, I know that some people really still think that I'm a backstabbing, secret-spilling, manipulative person. Which kills me.
I guess it's a very good thing that college is coming in just a few months, a fresh start for the loner girl who regrets ever having been the "mean girl" this summer. The worst part is that that girl inside me still wants to rear her monstrous head and slicing words when people bring up the things I did wrong. I just wish that girl from this summer had never been a part of me. That that side of me had never been awakened and that I could still be the loner who kept to herself and no one called a pathological liar.

It sucks being a chameleon sometimes.

The author's comments:
I am working through major regrets and shame I earned from my actions this summer. They haunt me. I see that some of the people I was close with were not the people I thought they were... and that makes me worry I'm not the person I thought I was. From this realization, I work daily to be the person I was before I transformed into somebody else this summer. It's hard, but a complete necessity.

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Anna45 SILVER said...
on Jan. 9 2014 at 6:46 am
Anna45 SILVER, Allentown, New Jersey
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Favorite Quote:
But I knew that was what he wanted, even as the lot echoed with the cracks of the shot, even as I begged silently-please not him, not him and Johnny both-I knew he would be dead, because Dally Wintson wanted to be dead and he always got what he wanted

I liked your descriptive language! It was all really good and showed tremendous skill! And I wish you good luck on your journey back to yourself... Don't worry, I know you'll make it :)

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