I can relate to Blake's article about crying in "Be a Man." as only a year younger than him, I understand his opposition on crying. "...real men don't cry", but at times it's necessary. On September 11, 2001, I'm almost positive every man was crying or on the verge of crying due to the horrific event as it occurred. 10 years later i remember it like it just happened yesterday and, i still cry. They're are certain times it's alright for a man to break the rule and "...just man up and cry."