No Body Is Perfect This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine.

I walked down the aisles looking for a pattern in my favorite clothing store. Just my luck, they had the cutest shorts – but only in sizes 0, 1, 3, 7, and 9. I wear a 13. Annoyed and devastated I walked out thinking, I’m just too fat.

The next week, at my grandmother’s house for the traditional spaghetti dinner, my cousin and his girlfriend, Ivy, joined us. We had a delicious dinner. Afterward, the women sat around talking about dieting and their weight and whatnot. My aunt complimented Ivy on how skinny she looked for weighing 120 pounds. My aunt said that she needed to go on a diet because she weighed almost 140 pounds. This comment kind of hurt me because I weigh almost 160 pounds. So I said, “I probably need to go on a diet too,” but I said this softly so, hopefully, they wouldn’t hear me.

Ivy, however, was sitting right next to me and heard what I said. She took me into the other room with her, and we sat on the bed. “When I was in my senior year of high school, I weighed 140 pounds,” she said. “I felt so insecure. I couldn’t imagine any guys would want to be with me because of how fat I was. I tried eating less, dieting, exercise, but nothing seemed to work. That was when I realized that no body is perfect. No anorexically skinny girl will ever be skinny enough for society to say that her body is ‘perfect,’ because then she would be considered ‘unhealthy.’”

I thought a lot about this for the next few days and realized that no one had ever called me fat, except when my mom was joking with me. So why was I so caught up with how much I weighed? Why was I so consumed by a number that does nothing but mock you? This number labels and classifies you and tells you “You can’t fit into those jeans because you’re 160 pounds. You can’t go out with him because you’re 160 pounds. No one will want to hang out with you because you’re 160 pounds” over and over.

I decided that I wasn’t going to let my weight rule my life. I wasn’t going to let it decide what I should and should not wear. At that point I realized that I, too, believe that no body is perfect, that no girl can be skinny enough, and that all those people who tell you the “anorexic look” is in are probably so uncomfortable with their own weight that they have to make other people self-conscious just to make themselves feel better.

So, anytime I start to feel self-conscious about my weight, I think to myself, Anorexia? I think not.

This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. This piece has been published in Teen Ink’s monthly print magazine.

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kenziegirl9 said...
Mar. 26, 2012 at 4:51 pm
I agree. Anorexia is hell.
beautifulspirit This work has been published in the Teen Ink monthly print magazine. said...
Mar. 21, 2012 at 7:06 pm
Awesome article~ It really felt real and honest. I've had the same thoughts about my own weight---no body is perfect. That is a great title for this particular subject.
october34 said...
Jul. 23, 2011 at 12:24 am
Such a great story! I love it!
Missyninja said...
May 31, 2011 at 10:52 am
This is a great artical! Good job, it's very positve and uplifting :)
Dmcbrii said...
May 9, 2011 at 3:33 pm

Whoever that person is that thinks overweight people should be banned from society is a complete moron. Not EVERYONE who is over weight, over eats. It does not mean they're lazy either. 

As a recovering bulimic, my perspective has changed a lot on body image. However, no matter what, I have always look at every one else as beautiful. 

Whatever you weigh, be a good person. That is honestly ALL that matters.

The most narrow-minded people can be as skinny as they'd... (more »)

charvan said...
Apr. 14, 2011 at 2:12 am
Great article. That is great advise, never let others determine how much you should weigh. Your body is not their body and how boring if we all looked the same! Check out for even more information.
pen15 replied...
Apr. 15, 2011 at 1:10 pm
you no what you are so right. you sound hot
JoJo said...
Apr. 7, 2011 at 9:10 pm

I like this because you should not let anyone convince you that your fat and its right no matter how skinny you are your still not perfect.

melissa28 said...
Apr. 4, 2011 at 5:28 pm
Wow this was great it really makes you feel better about your self and a lot more confident. It's really positive. Great Job.
MsMusicGeek101 said...
Apr. 4, 2011 at 6:36 am
I love this so much because it really shows that teen girls don't have to stress so much about how they look and what their weight is. I really like this article and I think it's incredibly positive.
Lea H. said...
Mar. 23, 2011 at 4:00 pm
I was always made fun of for being "chubby" in elementary school.  I took it out on myself and became anorexic.  Looking back on myself, I should have not gotten to a dangerously low number; numbers and sizes don't matter, it's how you feel that does. I learned the hard way.  Your article is an inspiration :)
HerDreamsGiveHerWings said...
Mar. 12, 2011 at 2:18 pm

Even if yours isn't perfect, or mine, or an anorexicly (sp?) skinny girl, their are definatly (sp?) some people that come pretty close. I think what is important to keep in mind is that those people might have a "better" body then you but you can write! and they have some weeknesses. I think nobodys perfect but idk if no body is perfect


Nofattys said...
Mar. 10, 2011 at 5:59 pm
Fat people are disgusting. Society should not tolerate them. They eat more than a regular person should, they are vile creatures who shouldn't even be alive. 
LiviHatcher replied...
Mar. 13, 2011 at 1:50 pm
well u knoh dhats kindaa wronq, im sorry tu say but big people can do as much as skinny people. yoou know im not the skinnest and im not the biggest but guess what i love me, i do cheerleading play sports and everything so just kuz your not a size 0 doesnt meen anything
Bka341997 replied...
Mar. 24, 2011 at 10:34 am
saying u dont like fat people is likes aying you dont like jews or blacks...get over youself. Most people dont want to be fat. its not a choice realy. you can fix it, but some people just are not capable of it physicaly. Grow up please. Everyone is PERFECT!
ifyourfatyourugly replied...
Apr. 15, 2011 at 1:08 pm
i agree with nofattys
NoFatPeople!!! replied...
Apr. 16, 2011 at 1:21 am
 I agree with nofattys. I do not accept them as people they are FAT BLOBS also known as aliens! I thought it was funny when her mom called her fat.
get real girl. 101. replied...
Apr. 26, 2011 at 11:16 am
seriously. you are sick. if you think that over weight/ big people should be band from socity then you your self need to be kicked out. you are close minded jerks that dont know what there talking about and need some serious help.
ohsopoisonous replied...
May 23, 2011 at 2:26 pm
I love how obvious it is that those bashers are the same person.
Jasmine M.=] replied...
Jan. 6, 2012 at 5:01 am
Just so you know not all people are fat because they eat a lot there are other that are sick and that makes them gain weight. and even if they are fat because they eat a lot i bet they can do more things than you can.. just because someones fat doesnt mean theyre a looser, or just because someones skinny doesnt make them healthy or strong
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