We have all had someone that has had a negative impact in our life. Either because they dislike our decisions or thoughts. At some point we have even let them make decisions for us or tell us what to think. No one can have control over you. Sometimes just to see them happy we do what they say. But, who makes us happy? where does our happiness go? We make them happy but not ourselves. It’s not our decision its theirs. Our thoughts are also up to them. They bring us down by telling us it's wrong. Is it really wrong? No. they say it because they want you to think the same way they do and make the same decisions as them. At times we do the wrong things for the wrong people. There with you now but will they be with you along the road or just when your decisions and thoughts don’t match theirs ? You have to put yourself before everyone else.