Regardless of Faith MAG

June 15, 2011
By chikaboom SILVER, Stony Brook, New York
chikaboom SILVER, Stony Brook, New York
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Favorite Quote:
Failure is always an option


Being ambivalent about my choice of religion shouldn't ­really surprise anyone, especially when I'm still wading through the notorious teenage years of angst, when authority exists to be questioned. Nothing is set in stone, and religion is no exception. I think I have a right to be religiously ambivalent due to my family and the variety of religious experiences I've been through.

My dad is unquestionably an atheist, and my mom is a converted Baptist, although I suspect she may have converted simply because of peer pressure and her very limited understanding of English at the time. However, my mom eventually grasped the concept of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit and has come to like the idea of having someone to pray to during difficult times.

My dad, often the source of those difficult times, chides my mother for her new devotion to God and finds sport in undermining religion. He suggests that logic rules the world and spends ridiculous amounts of energy teaching me to depend only on myself. This conflict in my household might explain the lack of any serious conversations about religion, although neither of my parents has any problem saying the word “God” – my mom when she is appreciative of something, and my dad when he gets hurt badly.

In the end, it is up to me to determine how I want to deal with religion. I know what the word “faith” means, so nobody can accuse me of not having any. I have faith before each tennis match, straightening my strings and jumping up and down. I have faith that no matter how unkind the late night gets as my head bows over my homework assignment or textbook chapter, the morning will eventually come to make it all worthwhile. And I have faith that my 81-year-old grandfather, who was denied a visa to visit the U.S., will keep his promise to quit smoking so that I can go to China to see him one more time.

I'd like to believe that being ambivalent about religion means I am ­allowed to dabble in both area of belief and apply them as I see fit. As I go through my academic career, being ambivalent about religion means I can push through using my belief in myself and my willpower to succeed. It also means there is nothing wrong with whispering, “Oh God, please!” when I receive response letters from colleges next spring or closing my eyes and praying when I need strength or solace from sadness.

While religion is a touchy topic for some, I find that kindness, forgiveness, perseverance, and hope do not fall under any specific doctrine. And I'm glad that my desire to go to college and discover intellectual enlightenment is a secular pursuit. If a Christian, Jew, Buddhist, or atheist can do it, why can't a religiously ­ambivalent person?



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on Jul. 12 2011 at 6:26 pm

Religion is a hard topic to talk about and I think you nailed it! Great job!

I love how it has quirky and serious elements all wrapped up to be a truly enlightening essay. Hope you get into where you're heading!


on Jul. 5 2011 at 12:01 pm
JacksonDReynolds PLATINUM, Chatsworth, Georgia
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Favorite Quote:
"Secularism persecutes religion like an umbrella persecutes rain." - Unknown

Wow - this is one of the most excellent pieces of writing that I have read in quite a long time, especially from a young person like myself. I agree with you entirely - do not ever let anyone or anything influence your religious choices exept yourself and your own reason. 


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