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LandOfDarkness replied...
Apr. 22, 2012 at 3:03 pm

? Where are you guys getting me telling people not to be g. .a.y? I never said that.

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LandOfDarkness replied...
Apr. 22, 2012 at 3:13 pm

Okay, look, I understand that they are human beings and have feelings too. I wouldn't criticize a g.a.y, but that doesn't mean other people won't. I would just try to explain to them that it's not right. Some people just need a little help and I want to save them from going to H.. e. ll. The ones who really tick me off are the ones who are just trying to be rebellious. We have to have some rules. If we keep allowing this to happen, we'll start allowing other crazy things to happen. It'll build up, and then the world will be in entropy. Does anyone want that to happen? No.

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Coffee replied...
Apr. 25, 2012 at 8:13 pm

I kind  of laughed when i read your origonal post, land, because i feel the exact same way about people like you. now, i'm not g.ay. I find guys very attractive.

i've met several g.ay people. and they are absolutly wonderful peole. they love everyone, understand everyone, and are very confident and nice. I consider them very brave for coming out like that. Some people have g.ay feelings, but just repress them because they are afraid of society.

In all, i have a lot more respect for them than people like you. i'm sure you're a fine person again, but just the harsh way that you judge people you dont even know is astoudning to me. and I do not respect you. you obviously have no confidence, to go around insulting other people. You're just trying to make yourself feel better about your self by putting your religion above people who are really much better than you.

Being g.ay has nothing to do with you. and if it bothers you, well. su.cks for you. people like you in society repulse me. should it be illegal to have opinions like yours because it bother me? no.

People like you are the ones tha cause ga.y people to be so ashamed of their feelings they want to end their own life. if being g.ay was a choice, dont you think they would change?

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Breece6 replied...
Apr. 26, 2012 at 6:11 am

LandofDarkness:

 

Sorry I forgot about this.

 

The place we're getting you saying for people not to be g.ay is when you said:

 

"Plus, same gender marriages have never been allowed, so why are they legalizing it now?"

 

I guess it's a question, but it implies that you're against g.ay marriage.

 

Sorry for the misunderstanding if you didn't really mean that.  

 

However, I think the title of this thread was probably the thing that got people mad, "Same gender relationships=no good at all" it sounds pretty mean to people who are in loving same gender relationships.

 

Sorry if I misinterpreted your opinion, but you worded it very strongly.

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LandOfDarkness replied...
Apr. 26, 2012 at 9:09 am

Well, like, I don't mind if people are g.a.y as long as they do not express it at all and keep quiet about it. If nobody knows about it, then I really don't mind.

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LandOfDarkness replied...
Apr. 26, 2012 at 9:15 am

Nevertheless, there's better, more safe ways to be "brave" without being g.a.y. I'm very sure that you cannot go to Heaven with being g.a.y. I'm really just thinking about other people. I don't want somebody to go to H.e.l.l just for being g.a.y. That's why I want to try to explain to them in a kind, caring way that they need to come out of it. If they don't want to come out of it, that's fine, not my business. I just want to save people.

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LandOfDarkness replied...
Apr. 26, 2012 at 9:27 am

Coffee: I can't believe what you just said to me, that was very cruel. Just for the record, I'm not insulting g.a.y people, I'm just saying that it's not right. I'm sure there are a lot of great g.a.y people, I'm not putting them down, I don't like the idea of same gender relationships. I don't find my words harsh at all. Truth hurts, being g.a.y is wrong, oh well. And I have loads of confidence, I mean come on. I'm not afraid of dressing in all black, wearing gloves, knee-high boots with ridiculous chains attached, and ten-inch spikes to school. And right now I'm fighting for what I believe in, ain't I? And I don't think I'm better than anyone, because I'm not, I'm a loser. G.a.y.s are going to fail so bad in life if they continue their ways. People will make fun of them and try to beat them up. We have to show them that it's wrong. And if you're criticizing my opinion and trying to say I think I'm better than other people, then I have no respect for you either.

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LandOfDarkness replied...
Apr. 26, 2012 at 9:43 am

Bottom line, everyone, God created Adam and Eve. MAN AND WOMAN. It was never thought of as right to be g.a.y, so I don't know why we think that now. I don't hate the g.a.y.s I. WANT. TO. HELP. THEM. SO. THEY. DON'T. BURN. FOR. ETERNITY. They're my brothers and sisters. I love them. I'm not condemning or judging them. If I don't know about a same geender relationship, then I don't mind. If you don't like my words, get off this thread and go vent somewhere else. Yeah!!! On fiy-ah!!!!!

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Coffee replied...
Apr. 26, 2012 at 10:18 pm

people are not just going to randomly beat ga.y people up lol. that was funny. I've read many stories of ga.y people leading very happy lives and adopting children and having great lives. in general, their relationships have lower divorce rates. just saying"its wrong" is a stupid argument. why is it wrong? they aren't hurting anyone. so what makes it wrong?the "people making fun of them, and trying to beat them up" are basically, you. by posting things like this, you're showing them that society doesn't like them. and you know what? most of them dont give a da.mn what you think. you can tell them you think it's wrong alllll you want. they've heard it all before.

what if, in the furture, it is comon to be in same gender relationships? infact, almost everyone is. but you're straight. everyone thinks you're really weird, and tries to talk you out of it, but you cant help the way you feel, and these peoples disaprovement is making you depressed. You eventually decide to try to be like everyone else. you find a girlfriend, date, and eventually get married. But honestly, you feel like the two of you are more friends than romantic partners. you are never really happy with this "relationship" because it is not you're true se.xual orientation.

 

think about that for a while now, will you?

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AnimaCordis replied...
Apr. 27, 2012 at 1:44 am

Well said Coffee!! Love is love, regardless of colour, nationality, sex or anything else. Like justice love is blind, true love sees past a person's phisical apperance to their heart and soul. Personally I think loving someone so much to brave the 'bun for eternity' is beautiful. If you love someone enough to go to hell for it, I think that's true love.

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Apr. 27, 2012 at 9:05 am

So, what are you trying to say? That it's weird to be in love with someone who's the opposite gender of you? Well, too bad. It doesn't matter if everyone in this world turns g.a.y. I'm not gonna.

 

"I will not bow. I will not break. i will shut the world away. I will not fall. I will not fade. I will take your breath away".

-Breaking Benjamin. I love the way they say that. Those words are as close to perfect as words can get.

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LandOfDarkness replied...
Apr. 27, 2012 at 9:14 am

I bet people would say hurtful things to something as stupid as a kid dressing in all black, but it's fine to be with someone the same gender as you. That is extremely irrelevant. Why can't people see that it is wrong???????? WAKE UP STUPID PEOPLE!!!!!!!!! WE'RE GONNA BECOME A FREAKIN COMMUNIST NATION!!!!!!!

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LandOfDarkness replied...
Apr. 27, 2012 at 9:26 am

Coffee: If they don't want to change, okay then, fine, they can burn (unless they repent). I don't care if they don't care. People may think they're happy and doing the right thing. Whatever if they do. And first of all, a large amount of people may date people of the same gender in the future, but not everyone. (At least there's still people with common sense in this world). I would not stop liking guys. My body and my mind both tell me that I don't want to kiss a human being that has two x chromosomes, wears makeup, and has a pretty face. That's what everyone else's body and mind should tell them as well, they're just screwed up in the head. And I understand that there is an exception, that some people may have both male and female parts/characteristics, and they may be confused and not know which gender to like. As for the stupid people who are just trying to be rebellious and different, they were not born like that. That would be something they picked up in this world. You're not naturally g.a.y and YOU HAVE A CHOICE AGAINST IT!!!!!! as long as you are not born with male and female parts. I'm not trying to be a b**ch, Coffee, but if it's making you angry, leave.                                                                                                           

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AnimaCordis replied...
Apr. 27, 2012 at 11:28 am

Coffee, I agree with you. I think, even if people do go to h.ell for being g.ay, that it's beautiful that they love someone enough to brave the 'lakes of fire' or whatever to be with that person.

Science and evidence are against you Land, research shows that people who are g.ay do not choose to be that way. Sex.uailty is not a way of 'rebelling' it's a very serious, personal thing.

As for the whole h.ell thing and being a good Christian and what not Jesus said ' Do not judge, or you too shall be judged' I'm sick of 'christians' condemming the actions of g.ay people. They make us seem like judmental fools.

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CollinF replied...
Apr. 27, 2012 at 3:48 pm

to Coffee:

 

Regarding your comment that "some people repress their g*ay feelings because they're afraid of society":

 

As far as I know, every person on earth who is not asexual experiences at least a little attraction to people of their own gender. This is simply because we're fallible, physical creatures who can't always control our hormones. People are s.exually attracted to a lotta odd things. The courageous thing to do here is not to stand up to society; it doesn't matter what society says: humans are stupid when they get together. Courage would be discovering what was the right thing to do, and then standing up for that with all your might. This thing may or may not be the emotioans we feel. We, as humans, often have to fight our emotions. The other day I wanted nothin more than to give my older brother a smack upside the head with a bat. However, I did the courageous thing and suppressed that feeling, which was actually pretty tough to do. In another situation (say my brother was trying to gun down the rest of my family?) it would have been courageous to give in to my emotion.

 

Do ya catch my drift?

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LandOfDarkness replied...
Apr. 29, 2012 at 6:34 pm

Could somebody just please tell me one reason why h.omosexuality is right? I really don't know why you all are saying g.ays don't have a choice. They truly do, unless they are born with, say, both o.v.a.ries and t.e.sticles.

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AnimaCordis replied...
Apr. 30, 2012 at 12:37 pm

Land: Because love is blind, in a nutshell, true love sees a person's. That means you don't see the colour of their skin, their body type, what s.ex they are, or anything else.   S.exuality is quite complicated to explain, there are many different scientific explinations for this. Most likely is it's 'wiring' within the brain that triggers the relace of hormones, thus making someone attracted to another. Although, don't quote me on that because it's just one of the theories. 

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Coffee replied...
Apr. 30, 2012 at 3:05 pm

lol landofdarkness, im not getting angry. in fact, its pretty hard to make me angry.

did you just shout that ga.y is going to turn us all into communists...? lol..okay. way to be random.

collin: hmm. not really. i dont see that the two examples are very relevant, actually.

landofdarkness again: We're trying. but whenever people try to explain why it's not wrong, you just argue back with "it's wrong". If you're not going to listen, stop asking.

honestly, everyone is ga.y. the only reason people marry straight is because they love that person, and can easily have children with them. Ga.ys are like a couple where the women is infer.tile. They love each other, but know they cant have children. both have adopt. no difference. at all.

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Imaginedangerous replied...
Apr. 30, 2012 at 6:08 pm

Coffee- No, everyone is not g.ay unless radically change the definition. 'Ga.y' does not mean 'someone in love'. It means 'somebody who has se.x with somebody of the same gender.'

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Coffee replied...
Apr. 30, 2012 at 7:53 pm

no, I'm saying everyone has sex.ual desires for both s.exes. they just suppress them to have kids, and fit into society.

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