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Relationships Are Rough

December 18, 2013
By Sandra-LinSoto SILVER, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Sandra-LinSoto SILVER, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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Favorite Quote:
Psalms 91:1-16
Psalm 91

1 Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High
will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.[a]
2 I will say of the Lord, “He is my refuge and my fortress,
my God, in whom I trust.”
3 Surely he will save you
from the fowler’s snare
and from the deadly pestilence.
4 He will cover you with his feathers,
and under his wings you will find refuge;
his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.
5 You will not fear the terror of night,
nor the arrow that flies by day,
6 nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness,
nor the plague that destroys at midday.
7 A thousand may fall at your side,
ten thousand at your right hand,
but it will not come near you.
8 You will only observe with your eyes
and see the punishment of the wicked.
9 If you say, “The Lord is my refuge,”
and you make the Most High your dwelling,
10 no harm will overtake you,
no disaster will come near your tent.
11 For he will command his angels concerning you
to guard you in all your ways;
12 they will lift you up in their hands,
so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.
13 You will tread on the lion and the cobra;
you will trample the great lion and the serpent.
14 “Because he[b] loves me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him;
I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name.
15 He will call on me, and I will answer him;
I will be with him in trouble,
I will deliver him and honor him.
16 With long life I will satisfy him
and show him my salvation.”


Relationships are tough sometimes because of peoples past times being in a relationship with a male or female. I was once in a relationship with a male and I guess he thought he was able to control what I did and I stopped him in his tracks. I told him if you think you can control me then you are wrong. One thing I know is he was not going to control my life and what my actions were. I also said if you want to be controlling of me then I guess you don’t need me at all then.

Another example of a rough relationship was with my best friend. She was always there for me and when I was in need of help, she helped me. One day she decided to turn away from me for someone else to be her best friend and I said OK, I guess we don’t need each other anymore.

Before you leave a relationship you should always try to talk with your boy/ girl friend to work things out. It’s not hard to do. You know when you should leave. If you ever found out that your boy/ girl friend ever was to have a sexual intercourse with someone else and still wanted to be with you then that’s a huge problem. That’s the point where you should leave and don't turn back to them. Let them struggle with trying to get you back. If they really love you and care for you, they wouldn't have done such wrong towards you. What I can say about learning from a tough relationship is that it is hard.

It may be very easy to leave out of a relationship with your boy/ girlfriend.Some times its not very easy for some people. When things get tough maybe both the boy and girl should seek counseling for more help if there is a still a problem that may occur. I do believe that both boys and girls should always be honest with each other no matter how bad the situation is.

An example from the story Macbeth is that his wife was always forcing him to do things he didn't want to do. Lady Macbeth forced her husband to kill the king and after the king was murdered, she started going crazy because she must of felt guilty. At the banquet Macbeth told her he will not go along with Lady Macbeth.



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